LifeGoesOnMan Posted March 10, 2014 Posted March 10, 2014 Hello again friends! Just wanted to give some simple yet sound advice when it comes to relationships, break-ups, getting back together and so forth. Trust your gut. Intuition is defined as: “the ability to acquire knowledge without inference or the use of reason” Typically, intuition is regarded as a conscious commonality between earthly knowledge and the higher spiritual knowledge, and appears as flashes of illumination. It is asserted that by definition intuition cannot be judged by logical reasoning. Those gut feelings you feel? They are real, and believe it or not, I had visited a pretty well reviewed and regarded medium once (with my ex) who told me that I myself had very strong intuition and intuitive feelings, feelings I shouldn’t ignore, which blew me away because I have ALWAYS felt I had crazy intuition about certain things, beyond normal in a lot of cases. all throughout my life on numerous occasions I have had gut feelings arise, to the point of being sick to my stomach, and then surely enough, whatever I thought was going to happen.. happened. Now, the reason I am telling you this, is because EVERYONE has intuition, some are more sensitive to it than others, some learn how to harness it and use it to the best of the ability, some are just paranoid, the difference between intuition & paranoia is, intuitive feelings come out of nowhere with no outside influence, other than the intuition itself. Paranoia is taking an influence or multiple influences, over thinking things and then making yourself crazy, etc etc. When it comes to relationships, when you feel like something is wrong, it normally is. Reason being is you become in tune and in sync with your partner, and you both consciously and sub consciously pick up signals, body language, changes in behavior, feeling like something is different, etc. When you feel like this, its normally well warranted. You may not know why or what, but you know something is up. If you think your significant other is lying about something, they normally are. Same goes with cheating, same goes with being walked all over or being played with when trying to get back together with an ex. If you feel it, don’t ignore it, there is a reason you are feeling this way, especially if the feeling comes out of nowhere. When you know, you just know. Ive learned this the hard way on multiple occasions, in the process of my relationship, break-up and getting back together, as well as just life in general. If you feel like something is up, best thing to do is just *talk* to them, talk it out, hold onto your emotions, and just talk. No communication means no relationship. Trust your gut. 2
HeartbrokenNewbie Posted March 10, 2014 Posted March 10, 2014 Im very intuitive too but it can be a pain in the ass as u second guess it so much ! x My worst one is I dream things... not saying Im psychic but I think I pick up on things in the daytime that I dont digest until night x Ive caught partners cheating from these dreams (I dream then look for the evidence and there it is) I most recently dreamt about my BF's ex.... yea guess what happened !! x it does my head in x 2
Author LifeGoesOnMan Posted March 10, 2014 Author Posted March 10, 2014 Im very intuitive too but it can be a pain in the ass as u second guess it so much ! x My worst one is I dream things... not saying Im psychic but I think I pick up on things in the daytime that I dont digest until night x Ive caught partners cheating from these dreams (I dream then look for the evidence and there it is) I most recently dreamt about my BF's ex.... yea guess what happened !! x it does my head in x its definitely real, my biggest problem was fighting them and not wanting to believe them, but if you embrace them, you are always a step ahead. sorry to hear about the cheating tho, that's the worst.
HeartbrokenNewbie Posted March 10, 2014 Posted March 10, 2014 I had an ex who would go to any lengths to cover his lies... he once had me drive him to a hospital to meet his mate to prove his mates partner was "giving birth" (this guy owed us a lot of money and was due to pay that day)... it all added up as he was at the hospital as my ex had said but I knew in my gut it wasnt right. I was doubting my own sanity with all the lies.. i remember driving home thinking I was losing the plot... months later this guy turns up at my house looking for my ex and all the truth comes out... that day at the hospital was a set up he never even borrowed the money my ex had taken it and used him as a cover... when u go through things like that it screws with your mind and then u find your head arguing with your intuition x
Author LifeGoesOnMan Posted March 10, 2014 Author Posted March 10, 2014 I had an ex who would go to any lengths to cover his lies... he once had me drive him to a hospital to meet his mate to prove his mates partner was "giving birth" (this guy owed us a lot of money and was due to pay that day)... it all added up as he was at the hospital as my ex had said but I knew in my gut it wasnt right. I was doubting my own sanity with all the lies.. i remember driving home thinking I was losing the plot... months later this guy turns up at my house looking for my ex and all the truth comes out... that day at the hospital was a set up he never even borrowed the money my ex had taken it and used him as a cover... when u go through things like that it screws with your mind and then u find your head arguing with your intuition x yea that's the hardest thing, listening to your gut. I fought mine constantly, and it puts you in a state of denial. you don't want to believe certain things because of the way you feel. gotta fight through that.
AnaisRose Posted March 10, 2014 Posted March 10, 2014 My gut is really sharp and is always right, especially when it comes to dating. Ignoring it and always "logically" analyzing men never served me well. I've avoided some toxic situations since I started following my intuition. 2
BC1980 Posted March 10, 2014 Posted March 10, 2014 yea that's the hardest thing, listening to your gut. I fought mine constantly, and it puts you in a state of denial. you don't want to believe certain things because of the way you feel. gotta fight through that. Difficult indeed. I always had a bad feeling in the back of my mind about my ex not committing. I had no clues the first 6 months, but, after that, there were very subtle comments/actions I wrote off. I'd say 90% of the time, he was all in and totally committed, but he would make comments the other 10% of the time that were "off." His actions weren't necessarily blatant, but they gave me pause. I think a lot of the time, our gut is telling us something that is based on actual fact. We just don't want to see it. We keep ignoring, overlooking, and writing off little things. 1
emva07 Posted March 10, 2014 Posted March 10, 2014 for me it's always awkward having a gut feeling that a guy likes me (which is not often) and then second guessing it (who wants to be made a fool when they're told they're wrong right?) then when I'm confident enough and work up the courage to inquire I get blocked with a "you're great and all....but...." I think it's BS, my gut is right When you feel it, there's something there. 2
FrostBlaze Posted March 10, 2014 Posted March 10, 2014 My gut feelings are always right, like 98% of the time, but i often second guess it when it comes to relationships...anything else, nah i will listen to my gut almost immediately. I am very intuitive person, i know stuff will happen and they do, as i said most of the time. I can also read people very well if i get to know their behavior a little, or just by looking at them and predict what they might want to do. Have actually amazed some of my friends, when i told them "see that guy? he is gonna do that, that and that" and he did, so i was like " F YEAH i'm good". xD However, i only get this vibe "gut feeling" when it's about bad stuff...not anything good. It's some defensive mechanism idk. But i can't always trust it or i am confused by it. My last relationship, i got SIGNALS from my gut from the start ! It sure knew something, i just didn't listen. Like she is being secretive, not over her ex, this is gonna end up bad for me, dump her now. Then it happened. But at the same time my gut confuses me by making me "feel" that she actually does love me. Wich leaves me puzzled as to why... Anyway, yeah. Trust them gut feeelings, i often like to joke about it. "my spidey sense iz a tingaling" xD 1
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