Anna Blunt Posted March 9, 2014 Posted March 9, 2014 I was in an on and off relationship for over a year. The boy would struggle to say the three magic words, to say he loved me. I let it slide since I knew he was pretty unemotional to begin with. I guess somewhere it began taking a toll on me. We got into a huge argument and I finally called it off. Just days before that we had been discussing a future together, a marriage. He was frustrated because he wanted to get engaged by the end of the year, and I felt I wasnt ready for it yet because I wanted to concentrate on my work first and establish myself. I asked for some time, but he hinted at wanting to end the relationship. I told him if he wants a marriage he needs to stop being so emotionally unavailable. I was unhappy but he hung up the call citing work exhaustion. I felt ignored. I dont even think he got my point. It all just snowballed towards the break up. I miss him like crazy. It's been a month, and I haven't heard from him at all. I thought he had moved on, but our mutual friend called me up. Said my ex had contacted him twice to ask about me, and how I was. The question is does he miss me? Or is he asking this just to make sure I'm not crying in a corner, so he doesn't feel guilty when he is with someone else?!
flightplan Posted March 9, 2014 Posted March 9, 2014 Yeah, he misses you. Sounds like the both of you are being too bull headed to see who calls first. If your the one that called it off, and you still want to work it out, it's on you to call him back.
Author Anna Blunt Posted March 10, 2014 Author Posted March 10, 2014 Thank you for your reply! I always made the effort to go back. If he cares, shouldn't he make that call. Instead of calling a friend?
David87 Posted March 10, 2014 Posted March 10, 2014 If he initiated the brake up then he sould call you not a mutual friend. If you dumped him then call him.
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