MichaelM Posted January 25, 2005 Posted January 25, 2005 A girl and I had the most incredible summer together last year, it was wonderful for both of us. The problem is she had recently left ehr husband and she is going through a divorce. We decided to aprt ways because she neede dtime to get trhough her stuff. That was in october. Now since then we have never been out of contact for more than 3 or 4 days, but it has been the most insane roller coaster ride possible. Finally about two weeks ago she emailed me and said she did not think we shoudl speak any longer and that she did not feel the same etc... I was ok with that being sick of everything. That lasted about 4 days and she called me. I was not home and I did not return her call. Last week she was extremely nice to me all week. Called me friday night after the bar and I was not home and again never called her back. she emailed me this morning and asked me if I still like her? I said yes and was sorry for not returning her call. She then said it was ok because she called somebody else instead. I emailed back and just said "nice" she replied "LOL - I was sooooo kidding Mike. I went to sleep. I'm sure I would do that. You know me better than that. No?" I replied I think I do but who knows and I don't think we should speak anymore. She got mad about that. Now what does she want from me?
Merin Posted January 25, 2005 Posted January 25, 2005 Sorry.. but seriously after all that sh*t what difference does it make what SHE wants? She sounds like an idiot.. (and again I'm sorry to say that) She sounds like she likes playing games.. and it also sounds like she calls you when she needs to feel better about herself.. IF this were me and she said she had called someone else.. I would have said GOOD, and seeeee yaaaa! Blah! Move on.. this chicka doesn't know her a** from a hole in the ground.
blinkless Posted January 25, 2005 Posted January 25, 2005 Im in complete agreement with Merin , this girl is crisis oriented or confused, but what ever it is she is using you in case plan A falls threw. I guess be glad you had fun, when you did, she strikes me as a person who could cause you more trouble than she would ever bring you happiness. Cut your losses. I really hate it when women make us look ridiculous ( all womenkind). When other women wont defend her, it sounds like she is"a not natural occurance of cell division."
alphamale Posted January 25, 2005 Posted January 25, 2005 she is playing with your head, not unlike a cat plays with its toy catnip mouse... run, don't walk
whichwayisup Posted January 26, 2005 Posted January 26, 2005 Hmmm she's play some sort of game with you...Just not sure if she is testing you to see how much you'll put up with or if she's met someone else and is stringing you along to see how things go IF she is seeing someone else. Something is not right though...
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