Patty Posted January 25, 2005 Posted January 25, 2005 Remember how I came here and said how this person was going after my man? Well now she is mad at me and when I wash dishes she throws them purposly in my direction.Last week at work,she aimed the freezer stock at me and tossed it in front of my face while I was trying to do my work.Im ready to tell the supervisor whether she likes it or not. She is mad cause I wont let her use me.I know she isnt a real friend after everything she has done.I didnt have the $1,000,to have her husband fly to see her thats the reason why she is flirting with the man I like. I have emailed the librarian to see if they are any Spanish courses but still havent got any responce yet.I think the reason for these problems is cause of the comminication gap.Im doing everything I can to get Spanish classes. Patty
Barby Posted January 25, 2005 Posted January 25, 2005 She is mad cause I wont let her use me.I know she isnt a real friend after everything she has done.I didnt have the $1,000,to have her husband fly to see her thats the reason why she is flirting with the man I like. She asked you for the money???? Patty if she did I am glad that you did not give it to her. I'm proud of you for seeking spanish classes, I hope that until you can get into one you can read books, ect. Here is a link to a pretty correct website for translation it's free... click here for free translator
Author Patty Posted January 25, 2005 Author Posted January 25, 2005 Thanks. Once I learn a little Spanish I might go up to him and speak to him in Spanish,whether she is there or not.I really am so mad at her right now and I think she knows it.I just want to show her that hes my friend too and not all for her.I feel so mad at her,I dont even like her in my sight.I dont mean to complain but im just disgusted with everything she has done to hurt me. Patty
Barby Posted January 25, 2005 Posted January 25, 2005 I'm sorry that she thinks it's okay to hurt you. I'm VERY glad that you are standing up for yourself now! Yeeah! I still don't understand your first post totally though. Did that girl ask you for $1000 so her husband could come see her or did you mean that she didn't have enough for him to come?
quankanne Posted January 25, 2005 Posted January 25, 2005 patty, check to see if the local literacy council is offering any classes, or who can hook you up with a Spanish-speaking student who wants to learn conversational English in an informal setting (not in a class), or see if any of the churches in your area are offering language classes. My guess is that because the Hispanic population is booming throughout the country, lots of churches are doing things to meet the needs of these newcomers. as for your coworker: is there an employee representative or human resources person there at the store? someone you can air your grievances to either in person or in writing. Let that person know that one of your co-workers is making the work environment impossible by acting the way she has. It's not really tattling on the girl, but ensuring the work environment stays SAFE. If she's throwing things, that's not good. are there any cameras set up in the kitchen?
Author Patty Posted January 25, 2005 Author Posted January 25, 2005 Did that girl ask you for $1000 so her husband could come see her or did you mean that she didn't have enough for him to come? She asked me how much money I had.I have a feeling she had the money cause she has burrowed money from me before and never paid me back. patty, check to see if the local literacy council is offering any classes, or who can hook you up with a Spanish-speaking student who wants to learn conversational English in an informal setting (not in a class), or see if any of the churches in your area are offering language classes. My guess is that because the Hispanic population is booming throughout the country, lots of churches are doing things to meet the needs of these newcomers. as for your coworker: is there an employee representative or human resources person there at the store? someone you can air your grievances to either in person or in writing. Let that person know that one of your co-workers is making the work environment impossible by acting the way she has. It's not really tattling on the girl, but ensuring the work environment stays SAFE. If she's throwing things, that's not good. are there any cameras set up in the kitchen? Thanks,quankanne.What a coincidence,thats just what I tried to do yesterday,only its site that you can meet people for language exchange.Ill try your advice. Im not sure if there are cameras in the kitchen set up.Not that i know of.I know theres one for drive threw. Patty
NiCoLe20 Posted January 25, 2005 Posted January 25, 2005 just tell her straight up to get a life and stop acting like a little kid lol she should get the hint hopefully
Naive Posted January 25, 2005 Posted January 25, 2005 When I was youngerI worked at McD's and believe me they have camera's everywhere. Tell your manager and have them deal with her b*tch a**!!!!!
StillHurtin Posted January 26, 2005 Posted January 26, 2005 The first job I got when I was 16 was working w/ my BF. She told me about it and I applied. We worked great w/ eachother. Until one night I made plans to out w/ another friend. She got pi$$ed and wouldn't speak to me at work. I flat out asked her WTH her problem was. She was pi$$ed I made plans w/ someone else w/o asking her first!!! OMGOSH! She was a total b!tch to me. I was so relieved when she quit to go to college (she was a year ahead of me). Bad thing is she went to the same college I had plan on going to years b4 she was. I was the one who took her to the Open House (my mom's hometown so I knew the town really well already). I think you need to flat out ask her what her problem is and tell her to grow up. What an immature child! If she doesn't change her attitude I would report her. GL!
quankanne Posted January 26, 2005 Posted January 26, 2005 patty, be sure to check the local churches. I thought of you when one of the churches south of where I lived faxed over information about Spanish language classes they're holding their parish hall, starting next month.
StillHurtin Posted January 26, 2005 Posted January 26, 2005 I work w/ a lot of Hispanic families in my job and was frustrated communicating w/ them. Things are getting easier though b/c they are learning English. My H went out and bought me a CD-ROM that teaches Spanish. Have you thought about doing something like that? You can do it at your own pace and not feel rushed into it. IMHO I would careless about learning Spanish to communicate w/ this guy. Do it for you, not b/c you want him to understand what you are saying. He doesn't deserve the time and effort you will need to put into learning it.
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