894hjk Posted March 9, 2014 Posted March 9, 2014 Was with my ex for 5 months. We mutally split for a number of complex reasons. We have been split for 2 months. The only contact I initiated was sending a funny V day card (as a goodbye). He has asked me out for lunch a few times I've politely declined. So it's a milestone bday next week and all I can think about is that I want to be with him on that day. I bought him a cd that he wanted when we were together n two other small gifts but I'm thinking 3 presents is a lot n might make him uncomfortable. So I thought of just sending the cd and funny card in post and not contacting. But I also keep thinking shall I contact him b4 to c what he's up to. I'm so confused. I love him and haven't loved a man for 10 years. We split for very good reasons I felt my daughter n I deserved better than him. We r both complex and emotionally challenged people. What should I do?
ExpatInItaly Posted March 9, 2014 Posted March 9, 2014 I assume this is the same ex from your other thread? The one who had naked pictures all over his FB and openly flirted with your best friend to make you jealous? I wouldn't send him anything. If you truly want to be over this, sending him gifts and cards isn't the way to do it. Doing so will only keep the door open and prolong your healing. You say you want better than him for your daughter - remember that when you think about contacting him. 1
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