How do you keep the interest level going?

[Sugarkane]

Longterm? Without it becoming boring and the other person blaming you, for their lack of communication.

[ConfusedHumanBeing]

Longterm? Without it becoming boring and the other person blaming you, for their lack of communication.

 

I see you are moving on lol

 

Will you please get help? For your own safety, I'm honestly begging you. Your relationship is done. It's over. You cant make someone care about you. Please realize this

[Sugarkane]

I see you are moving on lol

 

Will you please get help? For your own safety, I'm honestly begging you. Your relationship is done. It's over. You cant make someone care about you. Please realize this

 

No I just want my current relationship to keep going. So I don't end up here again. No one wants another breakup.

[Assasda]

If you keep on thinking about crap like this, you are bound to fail

[Sugarkane]

If you keep on thinking about crap like this, you are bound to fail

 

I am tired of lack of communication, even with people who were my friends.

[melell]

Not being able to communicate effectively is an issue with compatibility.

The relationship dissolves as a result, because it was a bad match.

 

If there are communication issues then both parties need to actively work towards keeping health communication, if both won't do that, then the relationship dissolves.

 

It isn't something that every couple deals with- it isn't an inevitability. I was in a relationship for over seven years, communication was never one of the issues.

 

Also, if you find it is happening to you in more than one relationship the problem might be yours, therapy would help.

 

Interest keeps going if the other person finds you interesting. If they don't, interest will be lost, the pair will be incompatible.

 

The point being- you cannot force compatibility.