Vero Posted March 9, 2014 Posted March 9, 2014 So I have a crush on two girls on my Track & Field team. The first girl that I tried to get is in my grade, but she's the type of girl that's loud, unpredictable, and just down-right "preppy". Basically she was not going to work out for me, but I, being so observing of her "actions and signals" thought she liked me, so I took action on it and decided to ask her for her number during lunch. This was a disaster. I, a nervous wreck, asked for her number when she was getting up from her table, and she said she would give it to me at practice after school. Basically, this was a 'No' because she's ignoring me a lot more now at practice and hasn't said anything about it when we did cross paths or talk for a second. Now it's awkward when I see her. I didn't really ever have a genuine conversation with this girl about anything, we didn't connect at all. I don't really care though because I now know that I don't really like 'her', just her looks. However, the second girl is a straight 10.. She's a junior, but A LOT of her friends are sophomores like me, so I would assume that she would be fine dating a sophomore. Unlike the first girl, she is pretty shy when she is by herself, but talks to her friends when they are around. I've found myself finding her alone waiting at the bus stop, and have taken it upon myself to start a couple conversations about upcoming Track meets and such. The conversation is really positive and flows really good. I feel I can connect with her better than I ever did with the first girl. We both talk just as much, adding in her own opinions, and she seems way more engaged in the conversation than the other girl. She smiles a bit when we talk and occasionally giggles every now and then. It just had such a good feel to it, much more than the average female I would talk to. Now, my problem is that I don't want to make it awkward with her like I did with the first girl. The first girl and I would just joke around with very little stuff, never really having a good conversation, but it was communication. Now, we don't at all and it's because I made it awkward between us. I feel I have good potential in getting the second girl's number, but I feel like I'll make it awkward like I did with the first girl. When I asked the first girl for her number, I just went straight up to her and asked; bad idea because we didn't have any connection through good conversation at all. I feel like if I asked this second girl she would give it to me, but it seems risky. Any Advice? Thanks:).
Gaeta Posted March 10, 2014 Posted March 10, 2014 Yes it's risky but who risks nothing gains nothing right? It will always be like this through your entire life. Better start practicing now So when you chat up this second girl just casually ask for her number. Good luck
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