alex332 Posted March 8, 2014 Posted March 8, 2014 Me and my girlfriend have been together for 3years. Initially in our relationship she lied to me about many things and flirt with guys. when i found out about that she aplogized, cried and begged me to be with her and promised that she'd change. few months later she did the same thing and i still got back with her. after that she stopped flirting with other guys. however almost a year after the start of our rs that she told me that she'd sex with 3 other guys before me (she told me that she was a virgin) and i still got back together with her. I believe her character is so because of her horrible upbringing by her parents and hence i try to make her a better person. Despite having seen her put in more effort in the relationship (celebrating anniversaries, giving me gifts) things have been rough on us because of her abusive behaviour, we often quarrel and sometimes for absolutely no reasons. fighting almost every few weeks over the most minor details and i give in to her because i love her very much, hoping that she'd change her attitude. Yesterday I decided that I had enough of suffering in the relationship and felt that there was no future in our relationship and broke up with her. I feel like **** and miss her very much already . She's promised to change and wants to be together but I'm so confused. Currently we're in a difficult period of time and I'm afraid that she'd hurt herself because of me. what should i do?
harrybrown Posted March 8, 2014 Posted March 8, 2014 Figure out what you want. Do you want to be with her or not? Then move in that direction. If you try to get back with her now, you have the breakup episode. The roller coaster ride is not a good idea. Think hard about it, and stick with your decision. If you realize that this is not the relationship that you want, do the NC and stick with it. If not, call her, tell her you made a big mistake. She may or may not want to continue the relationship. Good luck.
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