ryleerayy2 Posted March 8, 2014 Posted March 8, 2014 After hanging out a couple times, not to mention on Valentine's Day, a guy recently admitted he liked me and wanted to become exclusive. I told him I wasn't ready, he was happy with my honesty and told me it was great to finally hear a girl saying she didn't want to rush into anything. We agreed to just dating and saw each other a few more times. It was going really great! Then one day he just disappeared he hasn't texted or called for days now. And I am not going to initiate the conversation. I'm just wondering why hasn't he and why is he going out at night with other girls now?
babycakees Posted March 8, 2014 Posted March 8, 2014 Something else caught his eye. You told him you didn't want to be exclusive so he decided to see other people. I'm sorry. I've had guys disappear on me before too and it sucks. On to the next.
HeartbrokenNewbie Posted March 8, 2014 Posted March 8, 2014 Send him one more message x u did say u didn't want to be exclusive that would make me take a step back too x
Gaeta Posted March 8, 2014 Posted March 8, 2014 He is not making a priority out of someone making him an option. It's the smart thing to do. If you are just hanging out with no serious intention then shoot him a text and don't play the offended girlfriend. There is no *who text next* between friends hanging out together. 1
ExpatInItaly Posted March 9, 2014 Posted March 9, 2014 He probably is looking for something exclusive, so when he realized you weren't on the same page he backed down. He could very well be dating other people, too. You want different things at this point.
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