894hjk Posted March 8, 2014 Posted March 8, 2014 I mutually split from my ex 2 months ago for a large number of reasons. We were together 5 months. The ENTIRE time we dated he had a constant stream of models and half naked milfs/ladies appearing on his profile that he had liked and shared. At first I ignored it, then it started to get to me. He posted them a lot when I was in another room or asleep! He then got reactions out of me, it made me insecure and I felt ugly compared to the picture perfect woman with firm breasts and flat stomachs that he was admiring daily. I asked him to tone it down but he didn't. I went NC after the split then yesterday I took a look at his fb page and scrolled right back to the day we split, and guess what? Not one single pic of a girl at all. Unbelievable. He's contacted me 5-6x and asked me out for dinner twice since r split. I've always made polite excuses. I still love him. Additionally... When we first started seeing each other he kept on about my best friend n having a 3some, he friend requested her on fb n he hardly knew her! He said I was the only GF he had had that hadn't got jealous about his flirting with the best friend. So why? Why? Why?
babycakees Posted March 8, 2014 Posted March 8, 2014 Leave this guy alone. He seems to have issues. You are better off.
Conners Posted March 9, 2014 Posted March 9, 2014 I get how it can make you feel insecure, my ex used to like photos and pages of nude models, 18+ pages etc. It wasn't a lot but it happened occasionally. He didn't go as far as sharing the photos luckily but it still annoyed me after a bit.. They are guys though, they watch porn and are very visual so try not take it personally. Does he like photos of "hot" girls on his friends list? My ex never liked or commented on photos of other girls so I cut him a bit of slack because to me it was like him watching porn but not trying anything with girls he actually knew. If that makes sense. The threesome thing is weird though, if you agree to go out to dinner tell him that the idea is off the table and it makes you feel uncomfortable.
Author 894hjk Posted March 9, 2014 Author Posted March 9, 2014 It's just weird how there's no pics on his profile now we have split up! He loved porn, I didn't mind that.
ExpatInItaly Posted March 9, 2014 Posted March 9, 2014 I mutually split from my ex 2 months ago for a large number of reasons. We were together 5 months. The ENTIRE time we dated he had a constant stream of models and half naked milfs/ladies appearing on his profile that he had liked and shared. At first I ignored it, then it started to get to me. He posted them a lot when I was in another room or asleep! He then got reactions out of me, it made me insecure and I felt ugly compared to the picture perfect woman with firm breasts and flat stomachs that he was admiring daily. I asked him to tone it down but he didn't. I went NC after the split then yesterday I took a look at his fb page and scrolled right back to the day we split, and guess what? Not one single pic of a girl at all. Unbelievable. He's contacted me 5-6x and asked me out for dinner twice since r split. I've always made polite excuses. I still love him. Additionally... When we first started seeing each other he kept on about my best friend n having a 3some, he friend requested her on fb n he hardly knew her! He said I was the only GF he had had that hadn't got jealous about his flirting with the best friend. So why? Why? Why? So, he does that a lot? It's his "thing" to flirt with girlfriends' best friend? Red flag. (Unless of course you're into that idea, too) Be glad you're rid of him, because he's only going to fall back into his old routine once he's got you back.
Author 894hjk Posted March 9, 2014 Author Posted March 9, 2014 He tries to do it to make me insecure and to get validation that I care by seeing my jealousy I think. I have an excellent relationship with my bf so it never crossed my mind it would happen.
ExpatInItaly Posted March 9, 2014 Posted March 9, 2014 He tries to do it to make me insecure and to get validation that I care by seeing my jealousy I think. I have an excellent relationship with my bf so it never crossed my mind it would happen. If that's the case, he's actually the insecure one. And also quite immature. Not someone with long-term potential at this point.
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