Averagetoe Posted March 8, 2014 Posted March 8, 2014 (edited) Never been more confused in my life (woke up at 3:30 because of this). Anyways I'm looking for advice from you guys as to how I should feel and what I should do if anything. I've been seeing this girl for 5-6 months and everything was going smoothly until one of her exes past away (not from natural causes) and she moved to a new place. I tried being understanding as she had been through a lot in such a short period of time. when I tried asking her how we stood she said she isn't ready for a relationship right now but wants to continue the way things are with us if I had wanted and I should date others becAuse she doesn't want to be the reason for me To miss out on other opportunity. But everytime I text another girl she jokingly says who you texting and why I'm texting another girl (it occurs to much for it to be a joke but she plays it off as one). She also mentioned she isn't looking to date others because she sensed that I was feeling like that that was her purpose. Currently She keeps me and her friends separated and has mentioned that she is doing this because of her past relationships where she invested too much time in dating rather than on her friends. But before everything had happened to her ive met most of her friends and she was not hesitant to introduce me to them. We are still in contact with each other via text messages everyday (we both put in about the same amount of effort ehen it comes to initiating). We had just gotten back from a 2 day getaway. It was my idea but she came and had paid for a lot of our activities. This trip was a bad idea cause it just fueled my confusion. Right now I'm only seeing her once to twice a week and it seems she has withdrawn from me from where we use to be Sorry if this is a terrible read, I have to much running through my mind to care about grammar and such Lol help! Edited March 8, 2014 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
Author Averagetoe Posted March 8, 2014 Author Posted March 8, 2014 Thanks for the advice I kind of felt as though she kept me on the back burner but was denying every sign. Would it be wrong if I continued to see her and not expect anything from a relationship standpoint and continued to date others? I enjoy sleeping with her . Or will that end badly for the both of us. I do care about her
Author Averagetoe Posted March 8, 2014 Author Posted March 8, 2014 Also just for future reference are women turned off when we set aside to much time for them. I've read that you should almost ignore them but I feel as though that might send the wrong message
babycakees Posted March 8, 2014 Posted March 8, 2014 Also just for future reference are women turned off when we set aside to much time for them. I've read that you should almost ignore them but I feel as though that might send the wrong message I personally do not like being ignored. Makes me feel the guy is uninterested. One thing I've learned is that if when it's right, there will be no games played. 2
Gottabestrong Posted March 8, 2014 Posted March 8, 2014 Why are you texting other women in front of her? Sounds to me like she has a lot going on and is not ready for a very serious relationship. If you can't handle that, best to stop seeing her. For the record, women don't like being ignored. The only ones who react positively to that are insecure women who get duped into chasing after you because they feel unworthy. Every time a guy ignores me his number gets deleted and I am off to find a better one.
HeartbrokenNewbie Posted March 8, 2014 Posted March 8, 2014 Nooo she is looking for more from u x honestly x
Author Averagetoe Posted March 8, 2014 Author Posted March 8, 2014 Why are you texting other women in front of her? Sorry I misspoken she always says something like who's that other girl your texting even if it's a guy she doesn't know who I'm texting but she always "pretends"to be jealous @heartbrokennewbie. Why do you say she is looking more from me? I basically give her all of my time on a whim unless I have something super important going on at that moment
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