ohsooluvly Posted March 8, 2014 Posted March 8, 2014 This guy I had been seeing for a few months recently pulled a fade away on me and hasn't contacted me in over a week. This guy obviously doesn't wanna hear me anymore but he didn't bother to delete me on Facebook. And the entire time we were seeing each other he said he never gets on there, but he's been on a lot in the past week. If he's gonna delete me out of his life by pulling a fade away, why isn't he deleting me on Facebook?
pickflicker Posted March 8, 2014 Posted March 8, 2014 This guy I had been seeing for a few months recently pulled a fade away on me and hasn't contacted me in over a week. This guy obviously doesn't wanna hear me anymore but he didn't bother to delete me on Facebook. And the entire time we were seeing each other he said he never gets on there, but he's been on a lot in the past week. If he's gonna delete me out of his life by pulling a fade away, why isn't he deleting me on Facebook? If he's got eleventy billion friends, it doesn't matter who he deletes or doesn't. A more pertinent question - why don't you delete him? 1
TigerLilly78 Posted March 8, 2014 Posted March 8, 2014 Err its only been a week no? maybe something came up have you tired to casually say hi and see whats up? you prob know him better then anyone at this point but to me if he didn't delete you then he prob still wants to talk at some point..
Conners Posted March 8, 2014 Posted March 8, 2014 This guy I had been seeing for a few months recently pulled a fade away on me and hasn't contacted me in over a week. This guy obviously doesn't wanna hear me anymore but he didn't bother to delete me on Facebook. And the entire time we were seeing each other he said he never gets on there, but he's been on a lot in the past week. If he's gonna delete me out of his life by pulling a fade away, why isn't he deleting me on Facebook? Define "seeing" If you were just sleeping together it's probably because he doesn't care enough to delete you. Also if you haven't really acted over the top clingy because he hasn't contacted you he probably doesn't feel the need to block or delete you off facebook (take that as a compliment please) I went on a few dates with a guy a couple of years ago and he just stopped contacting me. I didn't care enough to delete him from facebook and he didn't delete me either. All I did was delete his phone number and move on.. BUT if it makes you feel better and more powerful.. just delete and block him and move on!!!!!! If he wants you in his life he will make it happen.
Author ohsooluvly Posted March 8, 2014 Author Posted March 8, 2014 Well it's actually been almost two weeks. I'm just used to most guys delete you once they decide they want nothing to do with you. He doesn't have thousands of friends. I haven't even tried reaching out to him because it's actually almost been 2 weeks at this point and I assumed if he wanted to hear from me he'd contact me. No, weren't just sleeping together either. I almost feel like he's keeping me on his friends list to creep on me.
Conners Posted March 8, 2014 Posted March 8, 2014 Well it's actually been almost two weeks. I'm just used to most guys delete you once they decide they want nothing to do with you. He doesn't have thousands of friends. I haven't even tried reaching out to him because it's actually almost been 2 weeks at this point and I assumed if he wanted to hear from me he'd contact me. No, weren't just sleeping together either. I almost feel like he's keeping me on his friends list to creep on me. Well don't let him. I hope you haven't posted some wishy wash fb statuses about guys being a-holes either. Best revenge is to make them THINK you don't care. Deleting him could show that you care or that you don't want anything to do with him, so it's up to you. I would delete him.
mammasita Posted March 8, 2014 Posted March 8, 2014 Did you have plans that he broke, were you stood up or did he not reply to your last communication? If the answer is yes.....delete him. If the answer is no, then i wouldn't necessarily say he's faded yet.
Author ohsooluvly Posted March 8, 2014 Author Posted March 8, 2014 Did you have plans that he broke, were you stood up or did he not reply to your last communication? If the answer is yes.....delete him. If the answer is no, then i wouldn't necessarily say he's faded yet. Well, his birthday was this past Monday and we had talked of doing something together for his birthday. He did act kind of odd about it so I'm thinking he may have gotten the feeling I was trying to push him into something more than what we were. We werent exclusive but had spent a lot of time together and had met each others family/friends. The last time I heard from him was Monday the 24th when he told me to have a good day at work. I replied and said "thanks you too" and nothing since. Why keep me as a "friend" on facebook?
soyou Posted March 8, 2014 Posted March 8, 2014 I was into the similar situation before. Here is what i did. If a guy stops contacting me, I will not bother to call or even casually say "wassup". I see it clearly as that the guy is not interested me enough. Time to move on. I deleted his number and fb account. If i didnt care whatever he may think of me the momemt he found out that i had unfriended him on fb. Its my fb and my life. I do whatever i want and feel like to. Chin up, heah high, next one please :-). No time to waste on thinking and over-anazlying why he didnt remove me on his fb account
WP4046 Posted March 8, 2014 Posted March 8, 2014 it's stupid to have someone as FB friend you are dating or sleeping with
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