csandiegooo Posted March 8, 2014 Posted March 8, 2014 I recently started dating Joel. He's amazing and clearly really into me and we've been spending a lot of time together. One of the few negative things about all of this, though, is his roommate. His roommate is this kind of sketchy club promoter who only talks about weed, rap, and designer clothes. He's generally nice, but I don't even know how to hold a conversation with him. This wouldn't be so much of a problem if I weren't around him so often. The past few times I've been over to Joel's house, there's been a pattern where he and I are hanging out in the living room, the roommate comes home from work and they sit there and smoke and talk about weird stuff only they understand until the roommate leaves to go to bed. On one hand, I feel a bit annoyed at Joel for having me sit there while this happens. On the other hand, it's the roommate's home too and he should be allowed to be as comfortable as he wants. So, how do I get on a level where I am cool hanging out with the roommate? Cuz right now I feel like all of my awkward Jewish aunts combined into one.
d0nnivain Posted March 8, 2014 Posted March 8, 2014 At some point when he's not high & the roommate is out of earshot you talk to Joel about your discomfort.
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