Chubbi Posted March 8, 2014 Posted March 8, 2014 (edited) New relationship. Guy has a great and large group of bro friends that he absolutely adores, but like any guy group, they are large and rowdy. I am a girly-girl. I can't "hang with the guys," I don't get innuendo jokes either (it will go over my head), and I'll look so dumb when they make jokes and I'm like wait, say it again. I also don't curse, I laugh too late at jokes, and I speak proper English so I don't know. It could be a disaster waiting to happen or the funniest thing ever. The thing is, I really like this guy (of course) and I want to make a good impression. I'm going to his apartment, and eventually, his friends will come over on the weekends. He wants me to meet them; he's been trying to show me off for awhile- since the first date and I've been putting it off, dreading it. He will protect me for the most part, I know but still I wish I were witty. I'm more kinda dense...it's true. I have book sense but no common sense. I can't help it. What should I do? I'm getting nerve-wrecked just thinking about it. Edited March 8, 2014 by Chubbi
HappyLove Posted March 8, 2014 Posted March 8, 2014 All that matters is that he likes you A LOT! So much so that he wants to show you off. You have nothing to worry about. Just be yourself. It's what he loves about you, you already have everything he likes and needs meeting his friends won't change that. If you start acting new and different THAT would be weird. 2
bubbaganoosh Posted March 8, 2014 Posted March 8, 2014 Sweetie, you must be doing something right if he's ready to show you off. He no doubt is proud and I wouldn't worry too much about his rowdy friends. Yeah some of them might be clowns but I have a feeling that if they get out of hand, then he will let them know to be on their good behavior...........if he hasn't already. I don't think he wants to lose you over something foolish. Are you going to be the only girl there or are the friends bringing dates as well?
Author Chubbi Posted March 8, 2014 Author Posted March 8, 2014 (edited) Sweetie, you must be doing something right if he's ready to show you off. He no doubt is proud and I wouldn't worry too much about his rowdy friends. Yeah some of them might be clowns but I have a feeling that if they get out of hand, then he will let them know to be on their good behavior...........if he hasn't already. I don't think he wants to lose you over something foolish. Are you going to be the only girl there or are the friends bringing dates as well? Well, when we talk on the phone on Friday nights, his friends will come over to get him to come out with them and from what I've seen, they don't have any girlfriends. It's bro night every Friday. He sees me on Saturdays. He has pictures of all 18 of them in his phone. It's cute. I'm jealous he has so many cool friends. Sometimes when he calls on Friday, they're already there, rowdy and joking and cursing and drinking, but they do respect him enough to give him space when he's on the phone with me. I'll ask him if they have girlfriends. Edited March 8, 2014 by Chubbi
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