just want to thank you guys

[kpkballer]

I have had a few posts lately discussing my breakup with my ex gf. Everyone kept telling me on here NO CONTACT NO CONTACT NO CONTACT. After that sunk in it was the BEST advice that I could have received from you guys. As hard as it was it was for the BEST. 2 weeks went by with me not reaching out to her even after she kept sending me all those multimedia texts from online websites. it WAS TORTURE not responding but, I held my ground no matter how hard it got for me.(just stay strong). Sure enough yesterday she called me and we talked about a lot, but nothing about our relationship. I love her with all my heart but, it felt good talking to her after our time apart. It was almost as if we were on a new path with eachother maybe to start over(who knows).Bottom line no contact IS the best thing you can do when your significant other breaks up with you. Just fall off the face of the earth from her for a while(don't ignore if she calls) that is playing games and I don't reccomend games. SHE will and I mean SHE WILL CALL at some point and miss you, and when he/she is ready to talk. But, when she does call PLEASE don't bring up the relationship, just talk as you would a good friend. When you have time to yourself you become stronger and are able to begin to heal. and realize what it was that you did wrong to be broken up with ( if you were wrong of course). It felt AMAZING to be able to talk civil again to her just as friends. and who knows we might get back together and we might not but, I allowed my self enough time to begin to heal properly and that's what matters. it doesn't seem like a lot of time but once you start to heal there is no stopping yourself. Yes I thought about her all the time and it was hard not calling even when I was at my weakest point. you just have to understand that if you call you will not get the answer you are looking for so, what's the point of calling?! I just want to say THANK YOU for all of you who wrote me with your advice and helpful tips. For those of you who are going thru it, stay strong and I PROMISE YOU! in the end you will survive and it will get better for you. Thanks again and I hope some of you listen to me as I did to all my friends on here who helped me. Good luck and I wish you all the BEST of luck. Thanks again

[kpkballer]

Also find things to do. DO NOT sit in the house all day or you will relapse and call her. Hang out with your friends and vent to them if they are your true friends they will listen and you will begin to feel better.