Weallwalkthelongroad Posted March 8, 2014 Posted March 8, 2014 Ugh...So here I am talking to a new girl and trying to move past this crazy girl I dated very briefly and I needed to go to the store to get some milk. As I am driving down the road away from my condo, I see my ex's car at her mother's condo which is two buildings down from mine. Now this ex was completely rude about how she broke it off with me saying that she still wanted to hear from me but blew up at me any time I would reach out to her. Hell...I caught an earful for trying to invite her to breakfast one time. I know she is no good for me and feel as though I am lucky to escape that toxic relationship. But anyways, I am so tempted to break NC because there was something about her that really got to me. I really wish I didn't need to go out to get milk tonight as I would have been better off not seeing her car and knowing she was right down the street from my place.
Colton Posted March 8, 2014 Posted March 8, 2014 Ugh...So here I am talking to a new girl and trying to move past this crazy girl I dated very briefly and I needed to go to the store to get some milk. As I am driving down the road away from my condo, I see my ex's car at her mother's condo which is two buildings down from mine. Now this ex was completely rude about how she broke it off with me saying that she still wanted to hear from me but blew up at me any time I would reach out to her. Hell...I caught an earful for trying to invite her to breakfast one time. I know she is no good for me and feel as though I am lucky to escape that toxic relationship. But anyways, I am so tempted to break NC because there was something about her that really got to me. I really wish I didn't need to go out to get milk tonight as I would have been better off not seeing her car and knowing she was right down the street from my place. You escaped a toxic relationship. She was rude in how she broke it off. You got yelled at when you invited her to breakfast? And for some reason you still want to talk to her?
Author Weallwalkthelongroad Posted March 8, 2014 Author Posted March 8, 2014 You escaped a toxic relationship. She was rude in how she broke it off. You got yelled at when you invited her to breakfast? And for some reason you still want to talk to her? Funny, one of my best friends said pretty much the exact same thing to me. I didn't and won't contact her. But there are times when my irrationally thinking side of the brain wants to contact her just to have it out. Thankfully, the rational side of my brain has won everyday for the past 3 weeks...except for one little slip up 4 days after NC.
Colton Posted March 10, 2014 Posted March 10, 2014 Funny, one of my best friends said pretty much the exact same thing to me. I didn't and won't contact her. But there are times when my irrationally thinking side of the brain wants to contact her just to have it out. Thankfully, the rational side of my brain has won everyday for the past 3 weeks...except for one little slip up 4 days after NC. Do yourself a favor and let your rational side win everytime. I never did and I spoke to my ex several times over the course of months and nothing got better or changed. Except maybe my dislike towards her, but thats on me and well my fault for keeping contact.
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