jimtash Posted January 24, 2005 Posted January 24, 2005 .........see how I'm doing and why does she even care? I didn't speak with her directly but got her voice mail and she wanted to know how I was doing and she said that everything was fine where she was at and she would call back in a few weeks. What I don't understand is that she broke my heart to go to another man 600 miles away from me and now she wants to know how I'm doing. This is the first time I heard from her since she moved away in December and since she decided to choose him over me, then what difference is it to her if I fell of the edge of the Earth, I mean what does it matter to her now?
alphamale Posted January 24, 2005 Posted January 24, 2005 as far as you are concerned, JIMTASH, this woman no longer exists. Do not respond in any way, shape or form. no matter how many times she contacts you. what a bytch.
whichwayisup Posted January 24, 2005 Posted January 24, 2005 Closure baby! She feels some guilt over it and wants to make sure you are okay so she can move on... Maybe she does really DOES care about your well being, but the fact she left you, moved away and is with some other guy now - Well, don't call her back. If she calls you back infew weeks, you can ignore her calls or talk to her. Find out why she is calling if you want...But by talking to her, your emotions are gonna be ruined as well and she could be testing the waters to see reactions just incase things don't work out with the other guy. Good luck though, hang in there!!
alphamale Posted January 24, 2005 Posted January 24, 2005 or if you really wanna have a bit 'o fun JIMTASH, when she calls back in a few wks pick up the phone and just rip her two new azzholes. call her everyname in the book and say she is a two-timing slut 'ho bytch. that will teach her and you'll feel much bettter. trust me on this man....
ion Posted January 24, 2005 Posted January 24, 2005 Simple yet the hardest thing to do Jim. It never was about being concerned about you, it was about making peace with her decisions and how her actions made her feel in retrospect. Don't communicate with her for a long time if ever again. I dare you not to talk with her! Good luck!
alphamale Posted January 24, 2005 Posted January 24, 2005 Originally posted by ion It never was about being concerned about you, it was about making peace with her decisions and how her actions made her feel in retrospect. Yep, I must agree 100% ION. Women are very selfish about their feelings and she wants to make sure her's are OK.
ion Posted January 25, 2005 Posted January 25, 2005 People, Alphamale protect themselves and their feelings. Unfortunately sometimes at the great expense of others...
Author jimtash Posted January 25, 2005 Author Posted January 25, 2005 I got every excuse from her as to why she broke it off with me from "it's me and not you" to the "you deserve better" crap. Well I spoke to her friend today and she said that they spoke that very same day she called me and the friend told me that when she called, she said that they had been fighting so much so that the police were called in. You know I loved her so much and during the time we were together, we never had an argument. She's STUPID for throwing us away on nothing. I know she deserves what she gets from this guy and it's going to get a lot worse too, but I tried telling her that and she wouldn't listen. I guess now she needs my shoulder, right? Funny how things work out.
alphamale Posted January 25, 2005 Posted January 25, 2005 Originally posted by jimtash Well I spoke to her friend today and she said that they spoke that very same day she called me and the friend told me that when she called, she said that they had been fighting so much so that the police were called in. You know I loved her so much and during the time we were together, we never had an argument. In any relationship, never having an argument is just as abnormal as arguing all the time.
Author jimtash Posted January 25, 2005 Author Posted January 25, 2005 We had minor spats but never to the point that we called each other names or it got so out of hand that the police were called. In fact, we didn't start to argue till after she decided to break up with me to get together with him.
AndrewJ Posted January 25, 2005 Posted January 25, 2005 Jim, No contact brother! I feel as though maybee she was feeling guilty? Rise above her bad mistake! Don't waste your energy on her!
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