craigisback Posted March 7, 2014 Posted March 7, 2014 I've been talking to this woman on okcupid for nearly 6 months now, she is in kuwait at the moment, visiting family. We have been messaging everyday and we have even spoke on oovoo a dozen times. She is due back here on the 25th of march. On the 2nd of march I asked if we could speak on oovoo. She said she cannot because of her brothers, this is the 5th time ive asked and she has said this But we have spoke on oovoo wwhile she has been in kuwait. She has disabled her account on okcupid about 3:times this week saying its not working properly. And now its gone off and she hasn't come back on. We were getting on really well talking to each other as we were already an item I fell in love with her, she said the same, I have had no contact with her for a week now and its breaking my heart, im in so much pain, okcupid and oovoo were the only form of contact with her. I know she gets back to Newcastle on the 25th and I even know the time she flys back. Should I go to airport and try and find her or not. If you were this person and I showed up at the airport what would your reaction be? Please help me
HeartbrokenNewbie Posted March 7, 2014 Posted March 7, 2014 Its a lovely idea but u are willing to go to an aiport on a whim and hope u spot her... she, however cant even be bothered to log on... big discrepancy ! x Dont do it x U sound like a lovely person... find someone that does fully reciprocate that x 1
Lernaean_Hydra Posted March 7, 2014 Posted March 7, 2014 Nope, no way in hell. Just leave it and consider yourself fortunate.
Author craigisback Posted March 7, 2014 Author Posted March 7, 2014 I dont know what to do, 6 months of messaging everyday and even spoke about our first date and first kiss, I thought it was special she seemed genuine. I really want to go and just ask why.
HeartbrokenNewbie Posted March 7, 2014 Posted March 7, 2014 I think there is probably someone else x She's not interested or she would have made contact... u need to try and let this go... anything u do now will just make things worse... x I know its really upsetting u build your hopes up and then its gone but it will get better x
David87 Posted March 7, 2014 Posted March 7, 2014 HeartbrokenNewbie is right, what if at the airport she comes with a dude or her new boyfriend, i'm not saying thats the case but there's a possibility. She doesn't even talk to you and you want to go to the airport, think about it. 1
herself Posted March 7, 2014 Posted March 7, 2014 There's no way this "thing" is legit. Im telling you as a woman, when were single and interested, we will NOT hold back and nothing will stop us from trying to connect. I think she is married, or not who she says she is. Visiting Kuwait even is extreme. She keeps disabling account I believe trying to "lose" you, but when she comes back, you are still there trying to seek her out. Asking multiple times to meet & she is turning you down...you need to move on. Seems u might even fall a little fast. Is it that tough to meet another woman & start dating? Let it go.shes not interested at all, it was just fun in the moment for her, lonliness perhaps. 2
mea_M Posted March 7, 2014 Posted March 7, 2014 Tough call. Perhaps wait to see of she contacts you? That will confirm some interest on her part. Would hate to see you anymore heartbroken. My best to you. Mea :-) 1
Author craigisback Posted March 7, 2014 Author Posted March 7, 2014 Maybe. She is visiting her dad and three brothers. Her mam is british so she is mixed, she has told me she has to be discreet about me whilst over there because her dad is an arab, abd she isn't supposed to speak to me. But she still managed to message me a number of times everyday, and spoke on oovoo.
mea_M Posted March 7, 2014 Posted March 7, 2014 Maybe. She is visiting her dad and three brothers. Her mam is british so she is mixed, she has told me she has to be discreet about me whilst over there because her dad is an arab, abd she isn't supposed to speak to me. But she still managed to message me a number of times everyday, and spoke on oovoo. Give it time. Wait and see. My bet you'll get you're answer that way. Good luck. Mea:-) 1
Author craigisback Posted March 7, 2014 Author Posted March 7, 2014 well i thought it was a good idea, if she gets off the plane with some DUDE at least ill know why, if not i can just ask her why, she could of at least had the courage to contact me and tell me the reason. whats the worst thing that could happen? apart from thinking im a creepy stalker or somthing
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