Author thegreatesthumphrey Posted March 7, 2014 Author Posted March 7, 2014 Get yourself an nice little (or big...) vibrator HAHAHA. funny
Tayken Posted March 8, 2014 Posted March 8, 2014 I crave stability! I need stability! Well...hate to break it to you, but you are not alone. To the OP.....I think "girls" are already players
Woggle Posted March 8, 2014 Posted March 8, 2014 Many are. Men do not have an exclusive domain on this kind of behavior. Do what you want but be honest with people and let them make the choice of whether or not they want what you want. I say that for a man or a woman.
missmac Posted March 8, 2014 Posted March 8, 2014 Safety and stability?? Sounds like low self worth to me. You NEED sex?? Your flesh is weak. Semi happy?? What's that? small steady profit? what's that? a wet a$$?? No thanks, I deserve someone that really really loves me. And so do you?? All said with love, tough love, but love nevertheless. Low self worth? weak flesh? Boooooooo! Women have needs too you know, and sex feels just as good for us (when it's with someone that we are sexually compatible with - and knows his way around a vagina) Sometimes looking for someone to be in a relationship with can be exhausting, sometimes you dont even want to look at all! Not everyone has a goal to find that perfect someone you know. So during the time we aren't - it's great to have those FWB relationships that are (or can be) an uncomplicated way to fulfill your needs 1
GoreSP Posted March 8, 2014 Posted March 8, 2014 Low self worth? weak flesh? Boooooooo! Women have needs too you know, and sex feels just as good for us (when it's with someone that we are sexually compatible with - and knows his way around a vagina) Sometimes looking for someone to be in a relationship with can be exhausting, sometimes you dont even want to look at all! Not everyone has a goal to find that perfect someone you know. So during the time we aren't - it's great to have those FWB relationships that are (or can be) an uncomplicated way to fulfill your needs Yeah I've been trying to make people understand that but it's really. BTW I'm from Ontario too! 1
hotpotato Posted March 8, 2014 Posted March 8, 2014 Then that requires putting yourself out there, and being ready to weather more heartbreak. I think it's understandable not wanting to go dating. Truth be told, the happiest people don't date. They just happened to meet someone somewhere or through a friend. Where I live many people marry high school sweethearts or someone they knew in high school. They don't date for years and years. So putting herself out there might work, just not dating. My girlfriend was probabaly just like you. Instant gratification; when you start wanting something serious with a serious person you WILL pay the price. Why he will notice that you see sex as only sex and WILL freak out. Unless you find someone just like yourself! A person you will not trust! What's wrong with a female seeing sex as sex? This is the 21st century...
joystickd Posted March 9, 2014 Posted March 9, 2014 I laugh because this thread is like women have recently been players. They have always been. The role of being a player is ok until you find that person that gives you the feelings of wanting a relationship. That person will see you for what you are and will not want a relationship with you. This goes for man or woman. Dating is tough is not a great excuse. Anything worth having in life is hard work. Sh*t life is tough. Honestly being a player is a way to avoid taking the hard look at yourself to make the improvements to be open and receptive to having a relationship. It's easy to blame the opposite gender, but after a while when you get the same result it's time to look at the person in the mirror. There is a reason inside you that you are not achieving what you want. Wouldn't it be in your best interests to figure that out?
Scott0310 Posted March 14, 2014 Posted March 14, 2014 Maybe you're just meeting the wrong guys? Just because a guy is a player doesn't mean you have to be one too. It's not attractive. Just be you and maintain your integrity and dignity. Someone out there will see it and appreciate you for YOU. Remember, you don't have to play the game. You can always walk a way and make a sandwich. mmmmm sandwiches...
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