Dustin199 Posted March 7, 2014 Posted March 7, 2014 Hi y'all I'm Dustin,I'm 21 and I've got a relationship problem that i hope somebody has some good advice for. so anyway i met this girl about 6 years ago,i was about 15 and she was 28,i know i know. it sounds kinda ghetto lol but it's not.she had a outside hotdog cart that i went by all the time on my way to town so id been seeing her for years but we never talked.i always thought she was just about the most beautiful girl in town,si one day i finally decided id go talk to her.she was the nicest sweetest girl id ever met and pretty soon we became good friends.i hit on her of corse but she never freaked out about it,so we got really close as the years went on,she's the only person I've ever met that really listed to me and cared what i was saying and feeling,she laughs at my jokes and she always takes my side.one time when i was probably 18 i got drunk and i told her i love her,she didn't take me seriously obviously.I've been trying to find a way to show her how much i love her,but then disaster struck.i still live with my parents as does she,and my family moved to new Mexico( we lived in Oregon so it's like a 24 hr drive)so now I'm out here in the desert missing the woman i love more than anything in the world and i don't know what to do next.but I'm not just gonna move on. so any help/advice would be nice,thanks
ExpatInItaly Posted March 7, 2014 Posted March 7, 2014 Has she ever given you any indication that she has romantic feelings for you, too? This reads (from what you've posted) as a good friendship, but a platonic one. Can you give a bit more insight on her side of this equation? Regardless of your feelings and whether or not you meet again, you would move on in time, OP. I can guarantee it. 1
Author Dustin199 Posted March 7, 2014 Author Posted March 7, 2014 We always kinda flirt,and she's told me i look sexy a few times
LittleTiger Posted March 7, 2014 Posted March 7, 2014 Hello Dustin, welcome to LS. It seems to me you have a schoolboy crush on this woman and, unless she's made it very clear otherwise, I doubt that the feelings are reciprocated. When you met her you were a child and that's probably how she still sees you, especially as she didn't take your declaration of love seriously. I know it hurts right now but, unless you're prepared to move back to where she is, by yourself, there isn't much you can do. It sounds as though you have a strong friendship, so keep in touch with her if that's what she wants too, but I wouldn't push the romance side of things if you value her as a friend. 2
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