alaki123 Posted March 6, 2014 Posted March 6, 2014 I don't know if this kind of thread is allowed here since I'm a completely new member but here it goes: I've actually never been in a relationship and have never dated. Im a 23 year old male and this is starting to really bother me. Everyone my age (and younger) are either in relationships or at least have been in one before. I seriously can not understand what my problem is. I can socialize with males easily and have some friends, but when it comes to females it seems to me that they just generally dislike me. When I try to start a conversation they either act like they can't hear me or they make some excuse to leave before I get a chance to say anything more than a few words. I have been able to socialize with a few women, but they happen accidentally and only happened because we had same sort of interests so we had something to talk about. But with in these kind of situations they tend to think of me as "just friends". Hence, I have been absolutely and miserably unsuccessful in this area up until this day. Does anyone have any advice for me?
Gaeta Posted March 6, 2014 Posted March 6, 2014 You have friends? ask them, especially your female friends. I am sure they have an idea of why you're not that popular with the ladies. You may approach them the wrong way, too aggressive, too passive, too insecure. Ask them about your look, do you need a make over, a more up dated look, haircut, clothing. What do you converse about, do you have hobbies, some interests, etc.
Author alaki123 Posted March 6, 2014 Author Posted March 6, 2014 Thank you for your reply. ask them, especially your female friends. Unfortunately all my friends are male. I have actually asked them but the only thing they said was that I'm an 'alright" guy and they can't imagine why women wouldn't want me. Ask them about your look, do you need a make over, a more up dated look, haircut, clothing. I am confident about my looks and don't really want to change them unless I absolutely ABSOLUTELY have to. What do you converse about, do you have hobbies, some interests, etc. As I said, I don't really get to converse about anything with women. My hobbies are video game, anime, books, etc.
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