katelynicole Posted March 6, 2014 Posted March 6, 2014 I've been with my boyfriend almost 3 years now and its my first long term relationship (over 1.5 years). I wanted to hear the experience of others to get more of a hold on my situation. What is it like and how do you feel? He is amazing and treats me wonderfully and loves me to the ends of the Earth but sometimes I just can't feel like I can reciprocate. I'm not sure if I'm in a rut or if the relationship is fizzling. If it IS fizzling, it would be entirely my fault and I'm not sure what I can do to stop it. I feel like its just me being lazy and not wanting to put the work in, and I don't want to mess up something great because of that. But I also don't want him to be with someone who is confused because he deserves the best, and I feel like I'm not giving that to him. It's really hard to judge too, because we are long distance most of the time. (He has a full time job in another state and I'm in uni) It's hard to tell if I'm happy most of the time because we don't get to even talk to each other that much. Right now I'm on spring break visiting him, and we got into a little fight the first day and it has clouded my whole week. Anyways, I'd just like some perspective, or optimism, or something to slap me into shape. Thank you.
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