locastri Posted March 6, 2014 Posted March 6, 2014 hi all. My gf and I have a stable relationship and most of the time we are very happy. but there are times when she gets mad at me, and I mean yelling mad, for the littlest things. e having forgotten to call her as soon as I get home, or posting something on Facebook that isn't even anything to get mad about. When she does this, I get so angry. I don't understand why she gets like that. so I want to seek a little petty revenge, but I don't want to hurt her or do something drastic. So what I do is this. I revenge-masturbate to pictures of her best friend. after I do that, I feel a lot better. my question is, is this a healthy way to relieve my anger over her unjustified anger? I'm serious when I say she screams at me for the smallest things sometimes.
mammasita Posted March 6, 2014 Posted March 6, 2014 Ok, I'll bite. So...you think this is normal to get mad for no reason?
Author locastri Posted March 6, 2014 Author Posted March 6, 2014 I don't know what to think. all I know is I've been putting up with it for a while now and it's driving me crazy.
d0nnivain Posted March 6, 2014 Posted March 6, 2014 it's not no reason. Something else is probably bothering her but it's easier to yell at you about nothing then to deal with that. Next time it happens, instead of reacting to her screaming, in a calm voice ask her what's really wrong.
Author locastri Posted March 6, 2014 Author Posted March 6, 2014 I know her dad is going thru some really rough stuff right now and she's stressed about it. I'm trying to help her but she allways pushes my patience. I really do love her.
d0nnivain Posted March 6, 2014 Posted March 6, 2014 I know her dad is going thru some really rough stuff right now and she's stressed about it. I'm trying to help her but she allways pushes my patience. I really do love her. There you have it. Her sniping is about her dad but she's taking it out on you. If you truly love her, have more patience & when she calms down explain that she has to stop taking it out on you. She may not realize she's doing it. If you buy into her bad mood & escalate, things will never get better & you risk permanently damaging the relationship
somecamel Posted March 6, 2014 Posted March 6, 2014 Are you wanking over her friends pictures with her in the room?
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