msalek89 Posted March 6, 2014 Posted March 6, 2014 Hey everyone. Well there is this guy in my class that has really caught my eye. He’s good looking and seems very smart. However, I haven’t got the guts to talk to him. I guess I am too shy when it comes to approaching someone but once I start a conversation that goes away. I have tried to come up with excuses to talk to him after class because he is usually a little late so I never get to sit next to him. I don’t want to sound awkward or look stupid when I decide to talk to him. How can I approach him? What should I say? We are going on spring break so I feel like it would be a good opportunity to talk tonight and see where it can go. Help, help. Thanks!
Barbarossa Posted March 6, 2014 Posted March 6, 2014 I had a girl last week ask if she could get my number in case she missed class. She's been randomly texting me since then your over thinking it.
preraph Posted March 6, 2014 Posted March 6, 2014 You could open a conversation about spring break, but I would just remind you that most guys aren't about to get nailed down to hanging with one girl at spring break -- even if they're already dating her. Why don't you just be near him leaving class and just smile and say "Hey" and see if he starts telling you hi after that and being at all more friendly.
Author msalek89 Posted March 6, 2014 Author Posted March 6, 2014 Yea maybe I am over thinking it. I am going to give it shot tonight and see what happens. thanks everyone.
Author msalek89 Posted March 7, 2014 Author Posted March 7, 2014 So I was getting out of class yesterday and planned to talk to him but he was walking with these two other girls. I got in my car and as i was driving I saw him driving next to me. He stopped at the gas station and I hesitated to follow. I just gave up and went home. The whole night I was punishing myself for not talking to him. I feel like since I haven't dated anybody for a year I have forgotten how to talk to a guy. I feel like an idiot. Now I have to wait a week until we go back to class and even then I don't know if i will talk to him
Noproblem Posted March 7, 2014 Posted March 7, 2014 Tell him you need help in psycology, make him explain to you something. If he said he's busy right now but can help later, Choose a day to meet him at the library. Talk in nice yet casual way. If he refused to help you That means 2 things 1 he is selfish 2 he is not interested
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