LauBee20 Posted March 6, 2014 Posted March 6, 2014 He wasn't ready to let go. It was probably one of the last vestiges of his relationship with her. Regardless, he wasn't completely over her. If he has any stuff still at your house, box that crap up, leave it outside your door. Next Step: Text him this, and only this: "Your stuff is on my porch. Please pick it up. Thanks." Last Step: Go NC and stay NC. It works. You won't be doing it to get him back. You'll be doing it because he's an immature douche-nozzle who is not capable of a mature relationship. P.S> he's 40. One would think he'd be more mature.
Author lvroflife Posted March 7, 2014 Author Posted March 7, 2014 People always say they want LOVE they want LOVE. But they are afraid of it!! They say they are afraid because it hurts. No no no LOVE doesn't hurt, fake people who say they love you, hurt!!!
JunkYardDog Posted March 7, 2014 Posted March 7, 2014 Many people are just selfish a holes is what it comes down to. They want to reap all the rewards but do none of the dirty work to get there. Its the 'ME show', staring ME, hosted by ME, directed by ME, with special guest ME!!!!! Sometimes you never know who you are really sleeping next to until you find out the hard way. Welcome to the narcissistic entitlement culture of today. Like my selfie???? 2
Author lvroflife Posted March 7, 2014 Author Posted March 7, 2014 I just want to text you "good morning beautiful" like I use too. I just want to know how your day was! I just want to see that dimple on the right side of your face when you smile. I just want to know how the new promotion is going. I want to tell you "I love you". I want to finish planning our 3rd trip. I want to send you something for your birthday and tell you happy birthday. I want to talk on the phone while we watch our shows. I want tell you about my new adventures. I want to tell you "l miss you" I want to caress/tickle your back. I want yo walk the shore line with you. I want yo randomly send you more flowers and fruit baskets. I want to fly down to see you and hold your hand Remember the "spaces in between my fingers". I want to kiss your forehead and lips. But you don't want me too do any of that, so I'll just wake up everyday and go through my day, come home, go to sleep, all the while trying to convince myself you never existed and we never met. 3
David87 Posted March 7, 2014 Posted March 7, 2014 I'll drink a beer for you tonight:) stay strong buddy.
paperwings Posted March 7, 2014 Posted March 7, 2014 Up at 7am, lying in bed for 2 hours thinking of her, her favorite little cat crying at our bedroom door and she just emailed me to say hi. I miss her so much. I need to get up. I need to move forward. I need to work on myself. Right now.
Saurren Posted March 7, 2014 Posted March 7, 2014 Up at 7am, lying in bed for 2 hours thinking of her, her favorite little cat crying at our bedroom door and she just emailed me to say hi. I miss her so much. I need to get up. I need to move forward. I need to work on myself. Right now. I know what you mean, especially when you know she wakes up at the same time as you. Then you wonder what she is doing, is she putting on make up, or getting dressed, does she lay in bed thinking about you before she gets up. I used to love mornings so much and now they are just haunting periods.
Author lvroflife Posted March 7, 2014 Author Posted March 7, 2014 Hey fellas! I miss the kisses on the forehead. I know she misses me BC she told me 3 days ago. This past week what I have done is join kick boxing, join the gym, bought workout clothes, and wrote out a new diet plan, cleaned all bad foods out of my kitchen... Here is the kicker, not only did I take these steps, but I am actually putting them to use. Kick boxing I felt awesome, the workouts I feel awesome. I am now working on pushing myself to the gym in the am. My work performance sucks but truth is if I am not feeling good and confident I can't perform.
paperwings Posted March 7, 2014 Posted March 7, 2014 Do it right. "Health is wealth, movement is medicine."
Saurren Posted March 7, 2014 Posted March 7, 2014 Hey fellas! I miss the kisses on the forehead. I know she misses me BC she told me 3 days ago. This past week what I have done is join kick boxing, join the gym, bought workout clothes, and wrote out a new diet plan, cleaned all bad foods out of my kitchen... Here is the kicker, not only did I take these steps, but I am actually putting them to use. Kick boxing I felt awesome, the workouts I feel awesome. I am now working on pushing myself to the gym in the am. My work performance sucks but truth is if I am not feeling good and confident I can't perform. Words don't mean anything especially after a break-up. I've been told "I miss you" so many times, but no action on her part to do anything about it. Action speaks louder than words, this saying is still true in this day and age.
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