finalf72 Posted January 24, 2005 Posted January 24, 2005 i worry too much about what people think about me and that makes me not ac tlike my true self! how do i stop myself!? its so hard to, its like subconsicous or something!!
7on Posted January 24, 2005 Posted January 24, 2005 Be yourself man. Honestly I think you should just spend some nights alone and reflect. I like going to Sonic, ordering food, propping my feet on the dash and blast good tunes. It's where I think. I decide who I want to be. If you can be yourself in front of yourself, eventually you act that way by accident in front of other people. Also I find just sitting down and listening to people also helps build yourself as a person. People love being listened to and that will make them like you. Also it'll keep yourself from making odd remarks or doing odd things that you want to break. Stuff like that.
alphamale Posted January 24, 2005 Posted January 24, 2005 Originally posted by 7on Be yourself man. Right 7on, he should JES BE HIMSELF. That is bloody bad advice. What about taking risks, living outside the box, doing what you would not normally do? What about learning and adapting and modifying one's behavior and thoughts? Jes be yerself....sure....then he will remain the same and not become a better person.
tattoomytoe Posted January 24, 2005 Posted January 24, 2005 dye your hair blue. you will get crazy looks, other people will tell you your hair it neat...blah blah.... the key is it is odd and will help you adjust moreso.
Author finalf72 Posted January 24, 2005 Author Posted January 24, 2005 this isnt helping me, responding to each others posts and telling me to dye my hair
tattoomytoe Posted January 24, 2005 Posted January 24, 2005 if you dye your hair, people will definately take notice of you. you will be forced to deal with the attention. but at the same time the only thing these people are REALY looking at would be your blue hair.....so you can be yourself and no one will care cause if anything they will be more into your hair.....GET IT!
Author finalf72 Posted January 24, 2005 Author Posted January 24, 2005 i GET IT! but i never not care what ppl think when i think i not care i find out i still do, its like peeling a onion :: the more layers i peel, the stinkier it gets the thing is i hate it when i know i care what they think, and even if i know they arent caring, i think they do and i hate that
Author finalf72 Posted January 25, 2005 Author Posted January 25, 2005 ugh! this isnt helping me! only 7on made at least some sense/some sort of solution, dying my hair wont do ****!
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