ExposedBrick Posted March 5, 2014 Posted March 5, 2014 I dated a woman I really liked for a three months at the end of last year. I had to break up with her due to some unresolved anger issues she had. Since then, I've dated a number of intelligent, attractive women. Once I'm sure they are interested in me, I seem to lose interest in them. I seem be really focused on any sort of potential red flag after the woman with anger issues. How do I know if I'm being too precautious or picky vs. not giving them a fair chance? 1
FortunateSon Posted March 5, 2014 Posted March 5, 2014 I am experiencing the same thing, any input is appreciated!!
johndoe13 Posted March 5, 2014 Posted March 5, 2014 Interesting. I think your approach must be good you know what you are looking for and when you see something you don't like you cut them loose. However, you have to figure out why exactly you are losing interest and what type of girls you are attracting. With my limited experience a lot of girls hook you with sex when their personality is blah! When they are interesting they don't need to do that but the sex could build to something better if there is already physical attraction. So basically: Physical attraction+great sex (potential hoe)+bad personality = ok to dump because hard to change their personality! Physical attraction+ok sex+great personality = good to build on and some patience required Can someone build on this?
Author ExposedBrick Posted March 5, 2014 Author Posted March 5, 2014 Lately, I seem to be attracting women that I'm not physically attrscted to who have great personalities and vice versa. Is it unrealistic to expect a little of both?
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