lihp Posted March 5, 2014 Posted March 5, 2014 Havent been on LS in a while but here it goes. I met someone 2 weeks ago and we seem to really have clicked together. We met 3 times, second time we made out and the third time we had sex. But at the same time as this was happening a female friend of mine who ive had feelings for five years ago came clean on how she felt about us in a good way. I still have feelings for her and i know that if we get together it would work on a long term. But there is just something about the girl i met 2 weeks ago and im really confused in what i want. Some guys dream of this situation but it makes me feel horrible. The girl Ive known for 5 years seems really unhappy that im seeing someone else at the same time which i understand. Anyone have any suggestions Im really in a sticky situation.
central Posted March 5, 2014 Posted March 5, 2014 Is there any chance the one you've wanted for so long is only now interested because you met someone else? Has she been stringing you along all these years? (Keeping you as a safety fallback if no one better turns up?) The timing seems suspicious at worst, coincidental at best. 2
whichwayisup Posted March 5, 2014 Posted March 5, 2014 The girl Ive known for 5 years seems really unhappy that im seeing someone else at the same time which i understand. So she knows you're seeing someone and now she tells you how she feels? That's not genuine - It's jealously based on her emotions of knowing you're with someone else. She tells you she has feelings for you - Why hasn't she spoken up in the past? Give that some thought. It's selfish of her to do this to you and now it's put you in a spot of confusion. Do not break up with your girlfriend and go running back to your female friend.
FrostBlaze Posted March 5, 2014 Posted March 5, 2014 So she knows you're seeing someone and now she tells you how she feels? That's not genuine - It's jealously based on her emotions of knowing you're with someone else. She tells you she has feelings for you - Why hasn't she spoken up in the past? Give that some thought. It's selfish of her to do this to you and now it's put you in a spot of confusion. Do not break up with your girlfriend and go running back to your female friend. You could ask her, but i figure this is mostly the truth, happened to me. She only spoke her feelings for me cuz she was jealous, i dumped that girl for her. Only to get dumped by her 2 days later? Cuz...nah she was confused, friends is better. Don't break up.
Author lihp Posted March 5, 2014 Author Posted March 5, 2014 Well im not in a couple with the girl but I havent tought about it that way. Ill see howthings go over time. Thanks for the replies i really appreciate it!
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