rov Posted March 5, 2014 Posted March 5, 2014 I met a girl through Facebook last week and she accepted my friend request. We started chatting on Facebook and in the next day she asked if I had Skype and I told her that yes, so she said if I wanted to Skype with her, I accepted. Then on friday she wanted to Skype again, we skyped for about 45 minutes and had a good time. The city where she lives is about 150 kilometers in distance from where I live. On Saturday she told me that if I had plans for Sunday and I told her that I had no plans so she told me if I would like to visit her and she would show me her city, I accepted immediately. We had a good time, I spent 8 hours with her, when I arrived I met her mom and she told me to take care for her daughter because she didn't knew me, she told me that her daughter hangs out with guys from my city and she doesn't know whom they are. This girl wanted me to stay the night in the city so we could visit more places in her city the next day, she told me that the next time I visit her she would show me other nice places. At the next day of this she wanted to Skype again and yesterday I said hello on Facebook chat and we chatted for a little bit and then she stopped answering. I don't know if i should wait for her to contact me or if I should contact her again today. I noticed that this girl has many male friends so I don't know if she wants me as a friend or something more. Any help?. thanks!
ExpatInItaly Posted March 5, 2014 Posted March 5, 2014 Hm. How old are you both? Did you know her at all before you "met" on FB, or was she just some random girl you added? I ask because she seemed to become very friendly very, very quickly. It certainly seems like she's interested but don't move too fast - remember that you barely know her. Sometimes people like that enjoy the thrill of meeting a new person, a little flirtation and attention, then on it's on to the next. She may be a very sincere girl and truly be busy right now ; I'd just use a little more caution before going full steam ahead. Sometimes things that spark quickly also fade out quickly. Don't contact her. Let her come to you now.
David87 Posted March 5, 2014 Posted March 5, 2014 Wait for her to contact you because you don't want to seem needy or clingy. During the time you spent together did you flirted with her, hold her hand or anything romantic?
Author rov Posted March 5, 2014 Author Posted March 5, 2014 Hm. How old are you both? Did you know her at all before you "met" on FB, or was she just some random girl you added? I ask because she seemed to become very friendly very, very quickly. It certainly seems like she's interested but don't move too fast - remember that you barely know her. Sometimes people like that enjoy the thrill of meeting a new person, a little flirtation and attention, then on it's on to the next. She may be a very sincere girl and truly be busy right now ; I'd just use a little more caution before going full steam ahead. Sometimes things that spark quickly also fade out quickly. Don't contact her. Let her come to you now. I just randomly added her on Facebook last week, so you think I should wait till she contacts me?
Author rov Posted March 5, 2014 Author Posted March 5, 2014 Wait for her to contact you because you don't want to seem needy or clingy. During the time you spent together did you flirted with her, hold her hand or anything romantic? I didnt hold hands with her but I made her compliments that she looked nice and tried to always look her at the eyes, so you think that I should wait for her to contact me?
ExpatInItaly Posted March 5, 2014 Posted March 5, 2014 I just randomly added her on Facebook last week, so you think I should wait till she contacts me? Yes. Wasn't it clear in my first post? I will repeat it: let her contact you. If you want to really gauge her interest, let her get in touch now. If she wants to keep a friendship or something going, she will. If she's not interested, you won't hear from her.
Author rov Posted March 5, 2014 Author Posted March 5, 2014 Yes. Wasn't it clear in my first post? I will repeat it: let her contact you. If you want to really gauge her interest, let her get in touch now. If she wants to keep a friendship or something going, she will. If she's not interested, you won't hear from her. Why would letting her contact me will gauge her interest?. thanks
Author rov Posted March 5, 2014 Author Posted March 5, 2014 today she said hi to me on Facebook, I didn't expected that
Barbarossa Posted March 6, 2014 Posted March 6, 2014 I think she's interested but she might be interested in other guys as well I say go for it.
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