hotpotato Posted March 5, 2014 Posted March 5, 2014 Yeah, guys like bad girls too..... but I do not think most guys want a relationship with one. Like Gaius says, its all about the conquest with a bad girl then move on. Not too many guys wanna take the bad girl home to meet mom Really? That's not what Ive seen...
KathyM Posted March 5, 2014 Posted March 5, 2014 I think it depends how you define "bad". I think men are attracted to women who are assertive, confident in what they want, exciting, adventureous, and somewhat feisty. I don't think they're attracted to women who are truly bad, who are criminals, drug addicts, have slept with half the town, cheats on their boyfriends, etc. Just like women are attracted to men who are assertive, confident, adventureous, exciting and passionate, but are not attracted to men who are criminals, drug addicts, use/abuse women, or is a philanderer. If the person comes from a pretty messed up family of origin, they might be attracted to the truly bad girl/boy either because that is what is familiar to them, or they have some need to fix a truly damaged person as a way of trying to fix their own issues or feel more powerful over their own issues. 3
ThaWholigan Posted March 5, 2014 Posted March 5, 2014 Depends on how you define bad girl. Bit of a hard-ass, likes a challenge, not afraid of conflict, adventurous, provocative etc. I'm all over . 2
Under The Radar Posted March 5, 2014 Posted March 5, 2014 Id take a Ronda Rousey or Gina Carrano any day of the week...Twice on the weekend... TFY You would take two armbars and a black eye on the weekend? Make sure to practice your tapout, dude . 2
thefooloftheyear Posted March 5, 2014 Posted March 5, 2014 You would take two armbars and a black eye on the weekend? Make sure to practice your tapout, dude . I'd have nothing to worry about...I throw 200+ lb guys around when I am not doing weight training...She maybe able to do that to 130 lb women, but I like my chances... TFY
hotpotato Posted March 5, 2014 Posted March 5, 2014 I think it depends how you define "bad". I think men are attracted to women who are assertive, confident in what they want, exciting, adventureous, and somewhat feisty. I don't think they're attracted to women who are truly bad, who are criminals, drug addicts, have slept with half the town, cheats on their boyfriends, etc. Just like women are attracted to men who are assertive, confident, adventureous, exciting and passionate, but are not attracted to men who are criminals, drug addicts, use/abuse women, or is a philanderer. If the person comes from a pretty messed up family of origin, they might be attracted to the truly bad girl/boy either because that is what is familiar to them, or they have some need to fix a truly damaged person as a way of trying to fix their own issues or feel more powerful over their own issues. Oh I've seen differently. I have seen men flock to bad girls. By bad I mean violent, criminal records, openly declaring their love for thug culture. I think these women come across as fun, exciting, and assertive at first.
kaylan Posted March 5, 2014 Posted March 5, 2014 Id take a Ronda Rousey or Gina Carrano any day of the week...Twice on the weekend... TFY Gina is a weak and was proved to be a fraud. Rhonda on the other hand is a take no bullshtt bad girl. she's got the look, she's got the body, and she's got the attitude. I would love to date a girl like her and would def wife her up.
jba10582 Posted March 5, 2014 Posted March 5, 2014 things like recklessness, more likely to cheat, more flippant about the other persons emotions, unpredictable, arrogance etc. of those things, unpredictability CAN be attractive at times, but not always. withheld about what I am thinking/feeling, and less eager to please, less willing to compromise (with things I consider important), and am a do what I want type of person. This is only initially, I am slow to warm to people, and struggle to prioritize people before I am close to them. That is who you are as a person, it is probably a healthy way of dealing with most people in your experiences. If people take the time it will be of more value to you and probably vise versa. It's not bad.
HomanWater Posted March 5, 2014 Posted March 5, 2014 I like mostly good girl who has a bad side, but is not showing that side to just anybody. Makes one think you have something special if she shows it to you.
KathyM Posted March 6, 2014 Posted March 6, 2014 Oh I've seen differently. I have seen men flock to bad girls. By bad I mean violent, criminal records, openly declaring their love for thug culture. I think these women come across as fun, exciting, and assertive at first. Maybe men who are also thugs might flock to female thugs, but I venture to say that most men would not want that in their life.
Stay_Gold Posted March 6, 2014 Posted March 6, 2014 (edited) Hell yeah guys are attracted to bad girls. I used to date this stripper that was HOT. She had tattoos, sexy hair and was a little ghetto/ratchet. She was also a BIG TIME druggie. Smoked pot all the time. She loved to party and drank alcohol as much as a guy. All of those things above really attrcted me to her. She gave off this bad girl persona and it was a major turn on for me. Like what all the other people said...it felt like a challenge for me to try and tame her and I...like most guys love a challenge. I eventually got through to her soft side and I felt even more attraction for her when that happened because I am a generally nice guy. I wouldn't mind going for another bad girl...there fun and are just like one of the "guys". Funny thing is...whenever my friends and I go out...I always tell them: You guys can have the nice girl...I want the baddest b&$@h in here. Lol. Edited March 6, 2014 by Stay_Gold
hotpotato Posted March 6, 2014 Posted March 6, 2014 Maybe men who are also thugs might flock to female thugs, but I venture to say that most men would not want that in their life. Nope, and the guys are not thugs. These are (dorky)men know personally, and I do not know anyone in thug culture.
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