barbielin Posted March 5, 2014 Posted March 5, 2014 Why will a guy hugged a girl so tight while they are sleeping and get intimately when he is not even Interested in her?
almond Posted March 5, 2014 Posted March 5, 2014 Because he's interested in cuddling and sex...not a relationship.
preraph Posted March 5, 2014 Posted March 5, 2014 Because he's a big baby -- maybe even a big impotent baby. Congratulations, you are now his mommy. I had one of these once. Drove me insane wondering what was up. He didn't want me but didn't seem to like it when other men wanted me. Went on for 3 years. We'd do what I like to think of as "breaking up," which usually amounted to me dragging it out of him what the F the problem was (I "wasn't his type" -- this meant he liked bigger boobs, when I drilled down further on the subject.) but the other issue (some other guy had to spell it out for me because I'd never come across it) is he had some impotency problems. He only felt "confident" banging drunk short blond girls. This is an observation I made on my own but didn't understand why. Many years later, I saw him and he'd since seen a shrink and ironed out some problems and he admitted "I leaned on you, you were my best friend, I had impotence problems from childhood abuse," and then later in life, after his marriage was over, he seemed interested in me but there were issues on my end by then (I was into someone else and didn't want to live with a kid -- he had a teen). Be patient - but only for awhile -- don't waste years like I did -- and meanwhile, do not give any more than you get back from him in case he is a user or just immature or whatever. Don't put your social life on hold for this guy. He may not be ready for a relationship period. Any number of things that probably have nothing to do with you. Don't make it your problem. Keep moving forward in life.
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