halifax89 Posted March 4, 2014 Posted March 4, 2014 today I was hanging out at my girlfiend's house with her and her nephew. When we were leaving her dad got home from work and we were all talking. Her nephew was crying so they had to hurry and go. I was parked behind them so i had to leave so tey could when I left I said "well i'll see you all later bye"...When I got to my car my girlfriend said "Love you!" and I said it back A few hours later she called me and was upset. she said "why didnt you say i love you to me" i said "well i did" , she said "yea after i said it. are you afraid to say it in front of my dad?" i said " well no, i knew you guys were in a hurry so I was rushing and i just didnt say it. im sorry. you know i love you" she said "well it just upset me a bit" is this something i should worry about with her or will it be forgotten?
babycakees Posted March 4, 2014 Posted March 4, 2014 I'm curious... How old is this girl? She sounds like she's picking a fight over nothing if you ask me. I wouldn't normally see what the big deal is. How long have you been together? If you've been together quite awhile, she should know you feel the same.
Author halifax89 Posted March 5, 2014 Author Posted March 5, 2014 21 and we been together for 11 months. i always say it i just didnt today being in a rush and it just slipped
Author halifax89 Posted March 5, 2014 Author Posted March 5, 2014 And how old are you? Sounds like your girlfriend is looking for something to get upset about. It's an obnoxious trait you see in people who aren't really mature in relationships yet. Frankly I'm a little surprised she's still pulling it at 21, that's some high school level nonsense, but hey. Shouldn't be an issue, unless she makes it into one later. im 24 shes 21
babycakees Posted March 5, 2014 Posted March 5, 2014 She's being slightly immature. Sounds like she's not confident with the you feel towards her. I'd shrug it off but I have a feeling this type of thing will happen again.
smackie9 Posted March 5, 2014 Posted March 5, 2014 Nothing to worry about, she is at that drama age, where she will accuse you of the silliest stuff, especially just before her monthly....make sure you keep track of that on the calendar. You will notice that these events will happen during this "period".
babycakees Posted March 5, 2014 Posted March 5, 2014 Nothing to worry about, she is at that drama age, where she will accuse you of the silliest stuff, especially just before her monthly....make sure you keep track of that on the calendar. You will notice that these events will happen during this "period". You did not seriously just blame this on her period....
todreaminblue Posted March 5, 2014 Posted March 5, 2014 if you want a postive ill give you one ....at l;east she tells you what upsets her.....it may seem trivial.....but it isnt trivial to her whether it is overly dramatic or not...thats pert of what upsets her..i wont judge her harshly for being true to what she feels....... now you know......decide if you like it she tells you more or less straight away ...or would it be better for her to build those trivials into a major blow out....consider yourself blessed i reckon you dealt with it .....and now you know....just be up front with how you feel and you should be fine.........deb
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