BrunoJ19 Posted March 4, 2014 Posted March 4, 2014 Hey, I recently met somebody about a month ago, and last night we had a "talk"... He's not ready for anything serious, which I wasn't necessarily expecting something serious anyway, I was just going with the flow... Anyway I was just becoming really comfortable and starting to develop feelings and he says this, and he doesn't want to stop seeing me, and Im the only girl he has been talking to, but he just had a big life change and doesn't want to force or rush anything, and needs to adjust to his new life.. I do still want to see him, but for my benefit I don't know if that is a good idea... Ughhh how do I get over this?! It should be easy considering we were still getting to know each other and were not immensely involved, but it's hard and I cant stop thinking about it
devilish innocent Posted March 4, 2014 Posted March 4, 2014 Probably you're going to have a period of being bummed out for a little while. You've been excited recently because of him, so there's naturally going to be a bit of a let down period from that. Just ride it out. Go on with your life. Remind yourself that he's just a guy you didn't even know that well yet. That there will be others. Try to find things you enjoy doing to occupy the extra free time you have know that you're not seeing him. Things should start to feel better fairly soon.
HeartbrokenNewbie Posted March 6, 2014 Posted March 6, 2014 Mine ended 2 weeks ago and I was bummed for a bit but feel much better now :-) x
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