iDrumKing Posted March 4, 2014 Posted March 4, 2014 Last night I had a nostalgic rush of my ex GF. Trust me, I went through the "try to think about the bad things she did." It just seemed to outweigh my current feelings. I missed her. 3 AM, tossing an turning, I got up and grabbed a pen and paper and started writing my letter to her. I put my heart into it. I wrote about seeing things from her perspective, from my perspective, everything really. I don't wanna go into detail, but just know I put EVERYTHING into it. I threw it into the envelope this morning and was ready to put it into the mailbox. While I was walking to the mailbox, I came to a dead stop and turned back around. I went into my backyard where my fire pit was at. I started up the fire, stared at the letter, and threw it in. Watching it burn, I felt a strange emotion rush over me that I could not explain. I can't say it was good nor was it bad. I don't know why I stop before sending it off. I don't know why I felt this way, which is why I'm here for opinions. Help?
darkmoon Posted March 4, 2014 Posted March 4, 2014 I think you were processing the ups and downs of your past 1
Mondmellonw Posted March 4, 2014 Posted March 4, 2014 I think you were processing the ups and downs of your past Yeah, and also, it was good to burn it. Maybe not there, seems a little random, haha. I did this thing of writing-burning instead of sending thing a month after the break up. Stay strong!
fireman81 Posted March 4, 2014 Posted March 4, 2014 Its totally normal, sometimes letting it out, writing and so on clears your mind and then you burn it
sportzhl24 Posted March 4, 2014 Posted March 4, 2014 I totally did something similar about 3 weeks ago. I got up in the middle of the night with a sudden urge to write my ex a letter. I wrote the whole thing out, got ready to send it, then I threw it in the sink and lit it on fire. I think in both of our cases, it is a sign that we are coming closer to a point of indifference. I think we both decided that it wasn't worth the emotional expenditure to send off the letter, wait for a response, stress over it, etc. I think it's a good sign. F*** exs, they aren't worth an inch of effort any longer. It's time to stop giving a f*** about them. 1
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