He Just Met Up With His Ex After 3 Years To Get Closure On Their Relationship?

[stephwill]

We've been dating for 2.5 years now. This past weekend he went down to Florida for a funeral and that's where his ex lives. They met up this morning... i'm not sure if it was for breakfast or what but to talk about their past relationship. I know that we're both in love with each other and I know that deep down he may have needed this but i feel some type of way about it.

 

I haven't spoken to him yet but i know through social media. When i do finally bring it up should i let him know that i know he met up with her or wait to see if he tells me?

 

Thoughts?

[mammasita]

I'm confused as to why he wasn't open and honest with you about seeing her to begin with. I'd be more worried about withholding that and the reasons for it than anything else.

[ExpatInItaly]

How do you know they met to get closure on the relationship?

 

Anyway, I wouldn't play a waiting game with him. I'd ask him point-blank what he did this morning, and give the chance to be honest. If it's on social media, he's likely not trying to hide it from you. Do you know if they've been in touch throughout your relationship?

[soccerrprp]

Yeah, I'd be curious to know how you know. From his social media site? His FB account? I'd also be interested to know if they (he or she) arranged to meet or the funeral was for someone they both knew directly or indirectly.

[Leigh 87]

Closure for a break up that happened YEARS ago?

 

How fishy.

 

I LOVED my ex of 2.5 years, but I sure don't need "closure". I have a new partner. I knew why my ex broke up with me. Even if it was mysterious, I have moved on.

[HeartbrokenNewbie]

Oh dear hun this doesnt sound good :-( x see if he tells u and if he doesnt then u need to confront him... prepare for the worst and anything else is a bonus xx