stormywind Posted January 24, 2005 Posted January 24, 2005 Women--what do you do to let a guy know you're interested? What kind of things do you say when you flirt? Just curious.
LucreziaBorgia Posted January 24, 2005 Posted January 24, 2005 It depends on how badly I wanted to be with the person. If it was a guy I was very attracted to: First and foremost, eye contact and smiling. Lots of eye contact. Looking for excuses to touch him somewhere. Complimenting him, especially his looks - his body. Getting in his personal space - for example if I want to tell him something, I'll lean in and tell him closely - sometimes putting my hand on his shoulder when I lean in. Basically, getting up into his personal space and saying "take me" with my eyes. This is different than playful flirting. Think - same as above but with less actual contact and eye contact and a 'joking around' sort of thing. Playful flirting is what you do to have fun and get/give attention. Serious, 'up in your space' flirting is unmistakable in its intent.
alphamale Posted January 24, 2005 Posted January 24, 2005 Originally posted by LucreziaBorgia First and foremost, eye contact and smiling. Lots of eye contact. Looking for excuses to touch him somewhere. Complimenting him, especially his looks - his body. Getting in his personal space - for example if I want to tell him something, I'll lean in and tell him closely - sometimes putting my hand on his shoulder when I lean in. Basically, getting up into his personal space and saying "take me" with my eyes. Yes, LUCREZIABORGIA, I have been on the recieving end of this many times. It is quite exciting and highly erotic cause you both know how it will end, he he. and yes, there is a huge diff between flirting and "flirting with intent".
BoatingBabe Posted January 24, 2005 Posted January 24, 2005 I'm less obvious when I flirt...I usually use double entendre. Things that sound innocent, but are anything but...eye contact, smile a lot....I don't do the touchy feely stuff unless I think the other person is interested as well...but even then, I will be subtle about it. However; I joke around a lot also with certain male friends and it's just that, joking....and I'll touch them and hug them more than I would someone I am really interested in.
kanga Posted January 24, 2005 Posted January 24, 2005 I honestly don't know exactly what I do, but I was told by the current something-or-other (or former, depending upon if/when he calls) that I flirt really well, and few women know how to do it. Maybe that was just some line from him? At any rate, I know I smile a lot. And I do a lot of eyebrow movement. In conversation, if he's being suggestive, I play along. I've also held a glass or bottle (whatever the drink is) at my mouth and licked around the rim. Usually drives a guy pretty batty. I don't always get so touchy because I tend to be afraid that I'm crossing a line of appropriateness. But I stand close. Very close.
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