4everalones Posted March 6, 2014 Posted March 6, 2014 (edited) I think giving too much of a **** about people in past is a defining sign of immaturity. As you get older, you care less and less. You have your exes on there for one reason, you're locked in a constant battle of "who has the most awesome life". If that's 'maturity' (hint - it's not!), then I'll pass. Yes, I still care about my recent ex of course. I still care about what he thinks of me and it hurts deeply that he thinks I am immature and emotionally weak for blocking him on Facebook. We broke up 2 months ago and it still hurts. I wouldn't be here if I didn't care, and I think that's the case for most people here. If WE didn't care, we wouldn't even bother posting about our ex lovers and asking advice for how to move on. I don't see how greiving and being heartbroken after a recent breakup is immature. As for the previous exes, I don't keep tabs on their lives, and they don't keep tabs on mine. We broke up mainly because of distance and because I kept moving away for new jobs. No competition or resentment there. I am happy for them and they're happy for me. Everyone has moved on. Period. Again, it's a life choice. Every person deal in their own way. I just chose to be civil and friendly with some former lovers since things ended in a friendly way. It didn't prevent me from moving on and finding love again. If blocking someone on social media is what helps a person's healing, then be it. Edited March 6, 2014 by 4everalones
4everalones Posted March 6, 2014 Posted March 6, 2014 Well anyway talk went very well. He told me he loved me couldn't stop thinking about me and was very sorry for the way he handled breaking up. He wants a chance to prove himsel and make it up to me. I said id let him try to prove himself and if he can than we can talk about getting back together. He wants to take me out on a date this week (sounds so weird haha) So we shall seeee! I'd be very careful not to fall easily this time. Men tend to want what they can't have, so try to take things slow. And always keep one foot out of the door (just in case). Good luck. I hope it works out for you.
Author crackerjax9 Posted March 6, 2014 Author Posted March 6, 2014 I'd be very careful not to fall easily this time. Men tend to want what they can't have, so try to take things slow. And always keep one foot out of the door (just in case). Good luck. I hope it works out for you. Thanks that's what I'm going to do. I'm not even going to have sex with him until he proves himself. He doesn't deserve that yet.
Zahara Posted March 6, 2014 Posted March 6, 2014 Thanks that's what I'm going to do. I'm not even going to have sex with him until he proves himself. He doesn't deserve that yet. You can take all the precautions you want, but at the end of the day it's risk. Men will act on their best behavior until your guard is down, then you give in and whether he reverts back or not after sex and comfort, is just a risk you are going to have to take. Holding out on sex doesn't prove anything. 1
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