JazzyRee Posted March 3, 2014 Posted March 3, 2014 My significant other is currently employed and in school. He chose to pause my moving with him because I didn't have what he calls a "real" education. I have a trade in business and have had jobs in the field. I also applied to a college near him to continue my schooling. If you fall in love with someone is it mandatory that they have something to bring to the table right away? Or should being with them because of love and wanting to support them make more sense? I'm in a LDR
justwhoiam Posted March 3, 2014 Posted March 3, 2014 Hold... He's not your significant other. You have never met him. You only saw a few pictures he sent you. And no, I wouldn't rule out a man because he didn't go to college. Ever. That's quite snobbish. If a man made me feel inferior because of my education or his supposedly better education, I would just stop talking to him. Such a person is not good as a friend either. 1
Author JazzyRee Posted March 3, 2014 Author Posted March 3, 2014 Thank you. Sounds like the better choice. 1
WhoreyBull Posted March 3, 2014 Posted March 3, 2014 It doesn't just sound like the better choice, it really is. Someone is belittling you off the bat and they haven't even met you or have seen your skills in action. You have plenty to bring to the table. Why should you need a "real" ( ) education when the relationship isn't even "real". Cut off communication and find someone who appreciates you. 2
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