Highlight888 Posted March 3, 2014 Posted March 3, 2014 I may just be typing this for me than anything else, but please feel free to comment as I'm not completely out of the woods. But after a good convo with a friend of mine today, I think I may be on the right path. All of us who are on here asking..."Will he/she leave them for me? Will they come back (If they have gone to try to make it work with H or W). How long should I wait?"....... The questions go on and on.... Answer is......who cares! My perspective is......Do I REALLY want to get sucked into all the drama and toxicity of their dysfunction? I mean really, would they have even had the A if they were truly happy with their partner? Probably not. So are they wanting to try to work it out.....yet again? Doesn't matter. I value myself and sanity way too much to feel badly about who I am because of THEIR dysfunction! Let me say that again. I value myself and sanity! If all you have heard is how miserable they were and how bad their marriage is and they choose to give it another shot, then that is their cross to carry, not mine and not yours! If you truly love that person, then if they find their happiness (with or without you), you should be happy for them. Not saying it's going to be easy. I am certainly sad beyond sad. But for me, I can not let their mess take me under. They will most likely fail, but hopefully by then for me, it won't matter. It won't matter because I cut the anchor that's forcing me to drown. From tonight forward, my plan is to do nothing but.....float to the top. Wish me luck and anyone who's interested, come join me. I heard its sunny and warm up there! Thank you for reading. 6
LilGirlandOW Posted March 3, 2014 Posted March 3, 2014 Refreshing to hear! Cheers to who cares! Wish you all the best xo
spice4life Posted March 3, 2014 Posted March 3, 2014 Keep up the good work! Don't deviate from the road you're on...keep moving forward and don't look back.
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