edmraver Posted March 2, 2014 Posted March 2, 2014 I have been told by many girls that I am extremely good looking, cute, hot, sexy... all of the above. I am also a very sharp dresser and I am very well groomed and healthy. I also went to a top 1% university and was a great student. I am quite bright and very well spoken. I'm hung like a pornstar as well, no not bragging I am just saying... ...so anyways being that I possess all these good qualities... how do I convey them or show them to women? I am clueless when it comes to picking up women and dating. One problem is I don't know how to get their attention. The second problem is If I do see one that I find attractive I get scared and shy. I am afraid to approach a really beautiful woman. I don't know how to approach them without being a creep. I feel like I am bothering a woman if I just go up to her and flirt with her. Besides, this always fails when I do try to approach. It's like a contradiction or paradox. I am very blessed with good looks, a good personality, and I am well spoken and can definitely carry a conversation. Yet when I see a beautiful woman, or talk to one I become all frozen and shy. I have no idea what is wrong with me. I have some seriously messed up issues with self esteem and confidence. I know for a fact that I am better looking than 99% of the guys in the bar or club and I also have a strong personality. I just don't how to show it. I feel like every guy walks up to the hot girls flirts with them and asks them how their day was.... That doesn't get you laid......I really need help..... Last night I hooked up with this really chubby girl from a dating wesbsite because I was so damn desperate and lonely. And she asked me seriously what was wrong with me. she was like wtf do you wanna hookup with me, you could get any girl you want. She said how are you single it makes no sense .Please ladies and gents give me some advice. How can I change this? What can I work on? How do you impress pretty women? How can I improve my confidence and self esteem? I feel like every time I have tried to approach women I got rejected.
Barbarossa Posted March 2, 2014 Posted March 2, 2014 Your confidence seems fine to me you seem quite into yourself judging by your post. If your a good conversationalist just talk to as many women as possible and some should grow to like you. I'm an average looking guy but my social skills allow me to do well with women. 1
BradJacobs Posted March 2, 2014 Posted March 2, 2014 Your top 1% university should have taught you how to use paragraphs. That is one big block of text. 1
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