theonlyjuan Posted March 2, 2014 Posted March 2, 2014 Bit of a long story I met this girl a few months after I broke up with my ex, we got on really well and she told me she liked me. I didn't want another relationship so I always made excuses to not see her. The thought of getting in another relationship scared me. So, I had my chance and passed up on it. Now she has a boyfriend and I can tell she still likes me although, she won't admit it. I didn't find her THAT attractive then but I find her more attractive now, maybe because I have been single a while now or I want what I can't have.. We have soooooo much in common and we got on so well. We make each other laugh all the time and are always happy together. Maybe we are better off being really good friends..I just hope I haven't made a huge mistake on passing up the opportunity to be with someone I have so much in common with I have always had to adapt myself to past girlfriends, with her I don't have to. I can actually be myself seeing as we get on so well. We are still really close as friends, I am just waiting until her boyfriend does the whole " I don't like you seeing him " thing
Barbarossa Posted March 2, 2014 Posted March 2, 2014 Forget about her man you just want what you can't have. Find a someone new who will accept you for who you are. 1
ExpatInItaly Posted March 2, 2014 Posted March 2, 2014 Bit of a long story I met this girl a few months after I broke up with my ex, we got on really well and she told me she liked me. I didn't want another relationship so I always made excuses to not see her. The thought of getting in another relationship scared me. So, I had my chance and passed up on it. Now she has a boyfriend and I can tell she still likes me although, she won't admit it. I didn't find her THAT attractive then but I find her more attractive now, maybe because I have been single a while now or I want what I can't have.. We have soooooo much in common and we got on so well. We make each other laugh all the time and are always happy together. Maybe we are better off being really good friends..I just hope I haven't made a huge mistake on passing up the opportunity to be with someone I have so much in common with I have always had to adapt myself to past girlfriends, with her I don't have to. I can actually be myself seeing as we get on so well. We are still really close as friends, I am just waiting until her boyfriend does the whole " I don't like you seeing him " thing How do you know this? I think this is more of a case of wanting what you can't have. You weren't into her enough in the past, so she moved on. Don't pursue anything with her at the moment. If she truly does like you, she might her way back to you in time. But you missed the boat on this so far, OP.
J21 Posted March 2, 2014 Posted March 2, 2014 You missed your chance man. It kinda seems like you're trying to justify it's ok to pursue her because of all your common interests, making each other laugh, and etc, but it doesn't make it ok. She is in another relationship and you have to let things be for now.
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