Markholland Posted January 1, 2014 Posted January 1, 2014 i was with a girl for 2 years and 8 months we had a great relationship and a great bond the last 2 weeks of the relationship i was questioning myself if i wanted to be with her because i was getting annoyed with things she was doing then out of nowhere she decided to end it saying she don't feel the same i was shocked because i never saw it cumming from her side of things i accept that its over and done with and im on NC but in saying that i really had great times and felt she was also my best friend i sort of wish i had another chance but she doesn't want to give it another chance anytime soon i guess NC is the only thing i can do im not hoping but i feel we both could of talked and worked through all this but i guess it was to late she had her mind made up and shes giving up not just me but the life we shared and the things we did together and all the friends shes left behind aswell i know since we broke up shes been partying and talking to other guys i feel after NC and me moving on in life and time apart she will realize her life was alot better with me but im not waiting around has anyone else had a similar thing happen where the girl runs off to go experience other things in life then comes running back ?
FML1980. Posted January 1, 2014 Posted January 1, 2014 I am experiencing that now. My husband (soon to be ex) got another woman pregnant,and ended up moving in with her when I found out. He treated me like dirt, and basically told me $hit happens and get over it. It wasn't even a full month before he found out that the grass isn't always greener on the other side and tried to come back. I've also had past relationships where me and the guy broke up, and I never heard from him again. Good luck
Author Markholland Posted March 2, 2014 Author Posted March 2, 2014 Long story short me and my ex girlfriend were together for nearly 3 years we broke up 3 months ago not long after she started seeing and is still seeing another guy me on the other hand iv found a new girl and happily going about my life We didnt end on good terms but after 2 months i contacted her and apoligized for things i said to make peace as we have mutual friends and will run into each other down the track lately she has been texting me every now and then one message she said she was sorry she did not appreciate me more and appreciate the things i did for her she also told me the current guy shes seeing still hasnt made anything "official" she asks alot about my current girlfriend i get random messages asking how im doing mostly just general conversation after a few text messages i usually dont reply as i have no reason to talk to her is this some sort of a game shes playing or is she having regrets shes a girl that will never admit a mystake she made or admit fault or does she generally care about me should i just ignore her im not really a big fan of her and would rather avoid her in general what do you think ?
lvroflife Posted March 2, 2014 Posted March 2, 2014 She is not happy with the new guy!! She was clearly happier with you. You both need to work on your communication as that caused your break up... You both were feeling some kind of way but didn't bring it to the table and look what happened!! Ask yourself, "why did I not express my concerns when having doubt?" That would giver her chance to sayhow she is feeling then you two could have discussed if there was a possibility to try and salvage things, but you held it in and she kicked you in the face with her request to end things... If you are truly happy with this girl then tell your ex straight up you are happy and your relationship is going well...If you are not then STRAIGHT up ask your ex what is the deal what is she seeking? Does she want to try and rekindle or does she just need an go boost? But seems to me you're having doubts aain about your current relationship...which also tells me you jumped into this relationship without being completely healed and over your last... Don't be selfish, that is not cool!!
Author Markholland Posted March 2, 2014 Author Posted March 2, 2014 She is not happy with the new guy!! She was clearly happier with you. You both need to work on your communication as that caused your break up... You both were feeling some kind of way but didn't bring it to the table and look what happened!! Ask yourself, "why did I not express my concerns when having doubt?" That would giver her chance to sayhow she is feeling then you two could have discussed if there was a possibility to try and salvage things, but you held it in and she kicked you in the face with her request to end things... If you are truly happy with this girl then tell your ex straight up you are happy and your relationship is going well...If you are not then STRAIGHT up ask your ex what is the deal what is she seeking? Does she want to try and rekindle or does she just need an go boost? But seems to me you're having doubts aain about your current relationship...which also tells me you jumped into this relationship without being completely healed and over your last... Don't be selfish, that is not cool!! i can tell you one thing before we broke up i put everything on the table and was upfront about everything she never said anything as far as my current relationship im quite happy i really like this girl and iv told her that your guess is as good as mine i have no idea shes always with her new guy i only here from her i guess when hes not around
lvroflife Posted March 2, 2014 Posted March 2, 2014 If this is bothering you, then you need to tell your ex to leave you alone... Simple as that
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