Mommame2 Posted March 2, 2014 Posted March 2, 2014 So I broke down and sent a racy pic to the guy I'm seeing. He texted back "wow. Thanx". I don't even know what to say to that. It didn't have my head included for obvious reasons. But I feel like an idiot. It's the same image I sent to a much better looking guy awhile back and he went on and on. But "wow thanxs" Makes me feel terrible. What would u do? He's not great to begin with..., unfortunately.
harrybrown Posted March 2, 2014 Posted March 2, 2014 He did not say yuck. Depends on what you want. If you are not that into him, I would say nothing. If you are going to continue to date, you are welcome should cover the response for now. If you do continue, perhaps bring up that you are expecting a big reaction. Hope you figure this one out.
JungleLover Posted March 2, 2014 Posted March 2, 2014 (edited) Accept that you sent a racy pic and live with it. Sending racy pics is always a risky thing when you are really just getting to know someone or starting to date them. It can go either way. Men tend to send their penises which is never a good idea (women can accumulate a whole collection of these if they dabble in online dating, your manhood becomes a number and women are actually rarely turned on by it). Women tend to send the breasts and much more rarely, the cat. This is fine once a relationship has been established or if you are just looking for a predominantly sexual relationship. I am not sure what you are looking for but his reaction give a sense of being underwhelmed. You can't take it back or recover from whatever a racy pic does to the receiver. Spilled milk comes to mind. I would not show shame after it is done. The worse thing you could do is show shame. Edited March 2, 2014 by JungleLover
Noproblem Posted March 2, 2014 Posted March 2, 2014 You really should read about slut shaming and how guys share other girls' photos on their social media and other ways. I know in such case they are usually teenagers, but let's get real! Many guys in their 20s and 30s still share their victories with their male friends and they still brag Don't think, I'm implying you are a bad person or anything. I'm just saying you should be careful, because you can't trust anyone unless you know them well.. and his wow, thanx wasn't the right answer, but maybe he was surprised.
Assasda Posted March 2, 2014 Posted March 2, 2014 I think our OP here was looking for her ego to be stroked. When it wasnt, I guess she felt a little robbed. She likes the guy, and she'll see him more. Thats the only reason why she's even posting here
pickflicker Posted March 2, 2014 Posted March 2, 2014 In the age of the internet, this is an idea that bears serious consideration. It's done now, but just make sure if you're going to do this, that you really trust the guy you are sending it to. 1
veggirl Posted March 2, 2014 Posted March 2, 2014 oh god please don't become one of those desperate chicks that sends "racy pics" to every guy they date for more than 3 weeks. you know in this day and age many guys have phones full of "racy pics" girls have sent them right? my bf didn't get one of me til we'd been together well over a year lol. same with my ex, the only other person who's received one. what did you want him to say in response? racy pics are old news, he's prob got them from tons of other girls so its nothing special anymore. is this the jackass who won't wear a condom? 1
MidwestUSA Posted March 2, 2014 Posted March 2, 2014 You're a newly divorced mother of an eight year old. I understand needing validation that you're still attractive, but THIS isn't the way to go about it! Think long and hard about this, you hardly know these guys.
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