hopefullove Posted March 1, 2014 Posted March 1, 2014 I had posted this in LDR but now i am confused if I just got dumped via text: This Christmas I got back together with my ex-boyfriend, my first boyfriend, when I visited home for christmas. I had loved him for a long time after we broke up and he still loved me so we decided to give it a go, but now distance is a problem since we live on different coasts. We've talked about marriage and a future etc. He had said his work would fly me in, as they wanted him to stay in the country instead of moving away, and I was now an incentive. That was great! But then they changed their mind and said they would just give him a bonus and he could fly me in instead. I was looking up flights for valentines day and he said he would pay, so i booked it. Now i have visited and am now back home again, and no mention about him paying me back. I had found a really good deal on the flight ($500 instead of $750) and I got to see my family for a day and a bit, so i thought I wasn't going to mention anything, but at the same time, he always talks about how he supports the broke people in his life. He used to have roommates and he would tell me how he would always cover their rent, and pay for things. He has moved out now, and said he left them all this stuff, and also other friends he has, he's always footing their bill. So at the same time now i'm getting pissed off that he foots their bill, but not the flight he promised me, and that he would forget and put me in this awkward situation where I have to bring it up again? The other night he was making some comments and joking around, because I had lost my creditcard and my subscription to netflix expired, which he was using. He was joking if everyone was broke in this world and everyone was just after his money. I got super offended and pissed off because I would never ask him for anything, even though I am tight on cash right now, so I got mad at him, and told him maybe I am so broke because maybe I bought a flight and took time off from work when I didn't need to. And further went on about how i had a lot of bills to pay, but go on about taking care of his friends and roommates. He goes on about how well he is doing in work, making really good money etc. I don't want to take advantage of that, when I was visiting he did pretty much pay for everything. But he has said he would get my flight, I hoped he wound remember. He immediately asked me for my account info to transfer cash, but i was upset and said nothing, then he said he would just send it to my parents house along with my earrings I had left. "sending cash and earrings to your parents house, peace" that's all he said. So now i'm like, did you just break up with me??? Because 6 years ago, he pretty much went "goodbye" one time and i was like, did you break up with me via text???? ARE YOU KIDDING ME. I'm pretty upset with him right now. I mean my response would be, "oh man sorry i totally forgot" and I would be embarrassed I forgot I told my girlfriend I would pay for her flight, not get all pissed off and ignore her... break up with her.. i texted him, to ask him if he just dumped me via text. No response.
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