Vanilla_Tinkie Posted March 1, 2014 Posted March 1, 2014 Just when I thought things is finally getting better I board the same damn plane as my first love a month ago. Ever since that day I can't stop thinking and dreaming about him. Why is it so difficult to move on from our first love?
milwinlol Posted March 2, 2014 Posted March 2, 2014 It's perfectly normal to always have that teeny bit of love for your first crush/love. Everyone will always have flashbacks of those fond memories you shared together and think about 'what could have been'. Did you get contact details for this man? Maybe you should meet up? It would probably be a good idea to meet up with this guy and 'close' that chapter of your life. If there's no chance of anything ever happening between you two again there's no reason why you should be thinking about him so often. You need to get over him. 1
BC1980 Posted March 3, 2014 Posted March 3, 2014 Just when I thought things is finally getting better I board the same damn plane as my first love a month ago. Ever since that day I can't stop thinking and dreaming about him. Why is it so difficult to move on from our first love? I think we idealize our first loves because it's innocent. We haven't really been hurt to that depth before, so it seems so new and awful. I remember my first love, and it's been 13 years. I idealized him for a few years though. I remember well, but I have only fond memories now. 1
David87 Posted March 3, 2014 Posted March 3, 2014 Is there any chance for a reconciliation? Do you even want that? If not then you'll have to live with those flashbacks because they will always be there.
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