PinkDotsXOXO Posted March 1, 2014 Posted March 1, 2014 Thanks in advance for your help guys! So I started talking to this guy on an online dating site about a week ago. (Were both 24). Before we met, we’d text a lot and we were quite flirty. Yesterday, we decided to finally meet up. We gave each other a quick hug upon first meeting up and went to a show together. During the show I don’t know if it was just me overanalyzing things but there were times where we sat really close. At the end of the night, we hugged longer than we previously had and he told me to text him to say that I got home alright. I did and he said he’d text me the next day..today. He did text me today and we chatted and I told him I found him to be mysterious and that I couldn’t get a read on him. He said that any time anyone first meets him they think the same thing. I could tell he wanted to talk to me because he texted me back quickly and kept the conversation going. We finally got to talking about our date and he said he had a really good time w a smiley face and he also said we didn’t really get to talk a lot because we were both so into the show but that he enjoyed my company. The only difference now that we have met is he’s less flirty than he was before (this is based on our one conversation since our date last night).I guess my question is does he likes me as a friend who does he actually see us together? I don’t want to sound crazy and ask him but I guess I’m just confused. I’ve had a long line of bad luck with guys lately and I’m wondering if it’s finally over. What do you guys think?
JungleLover Posted March 1, 2014 Posted March 1, 2014 He is probably deciding if he likes you or not. Don't be pushy or do much probing at this point. Definitely don't develop any anxiety. If you do, you better be good at hiding it. I would avoid telling someone how mysterious they are. I think it only encourages certain behavior. Just play it cool. 1
Assasda Posted March 2, 2014 Posted March 2, 2014 The mysterious thing is fine. Dont worry about it. Since he met you now, he's more familiar with you. If you want to be flirty, YOU initiate the flirtation, dont question it. I would also suggest, asking him out somewhere else, set another date, since you guys didnt get to talk the first time. Food is always good for me
abby_tx Posted March 3, 2014 Posted March 3, 2014 Sometimes I am less flirty when I find out I really like someone. This could be the case.
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