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Not sure how to approach my GF feeling this way


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Before I met my GF, I was depressed (clinically diagnosed by therapist). I am much, much happier now that I am with her (and I assume the medicine I took for a short period of time, along with the talk therapy helped too -- I still see my therapist every few weeks to check in). Recently, however, my GF told me that she has anxiety/feels pressure because she feels like if we were ever to get into a fight, or if she were to upset me, I'd return to feeling depressed.

 

I know she loves me and cares a lot about me, and I feel the same for her. I feel like I do a good job of not only telling her how I feel about her, but showing her too. Is there any way I can make her feel less anxious? She said she did feel better about it after we chatted about it for a little bit. I told her that just because there may be a hiccup in our relationship doesn't mean I'd suddenly become depressed again, but I'm not sure it completely registered with her.

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I think you should tell her again in more detail just to reassure her.

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