sweet05 Posted March 1, 2014 Posted March 1, 2014 I have posted before about my issue. I always get attached quickly when I like someone. I started dating someone I met online, and we kind of started it quickly. I knew he had broken an engagement only 5 months earlier, that worried me, I asked him, but he told me he had moved on completely. Three weeks in dating I went to his house and he cooked for me, we were intimate. At the end of dinner he told me he had to tell me something, that he felt things were going to fast. That he hadn't told me but a month before he had dated someone that crushed his heart, and he was still hurt. That he wanted things to go slow. The day later I told him to fix his head and then we would talk. We kept on talking as friends. Until yesterday he told me that he went on a date and he liked the girl, and sees himself trying to develop a relationship with her. And that he only saw me as a friend. That hurt me, and I told him so. Told him I couldn't be his friend at the time, that I felt betrayed and used (he told me I was the first blind date he had after his 5 year relationship), that I was going to block him from everywhere and do NC. That when I felt in my heart that I can only be his friend, that day I would contact him again. Guys help me it hurts feeling rejected and friend zoned
mtnbiker3000 Posted March 1, 2014 Posted March 1, 2014 Slow down and try to keep from becoming deeply invested too quickly. I know, easier said than done 1
Author sweet05 Posted March 1, 2014 Author Posted March 1, 2014 Slow down and try to keep from becoming deeply invested too quickly. I know, easier said than done Thank you, I know that I have to definitely do that on my next relationship. I think that scares them away!!! Still just wish this weeks pass on by quickly so I can forget of him romantically.
Raena Posted March 1, 2014 Posted March 1, 2014 Wait... he told you after you were intimate that it was going too fast or before?
Weallwalkthelongroad Posted March 1, 2014 Posted March 1, 2014 Wait... he told you after you were intimate that it was going too fast or before? I was told it was moving too fast after getting intimate on more tag few occasions. I was even told I was moving too fast by inviting my ex to my buddy's 4 year olds bday party. I took it as a bunch of bs.
Author sweet05 Posted March 1, 2014 Author Posted March 1, 2014 Wait... he told you after you were intimate that it was going too fast or before? After!!! I know so stupid of me!
mus Posted March 1, 2014 Posted March 1, 2014 If it makes you feel any better at least he didn't lie about stuff. Last girl i was seeing was adamant she shouldn't be in a relationship, a week after getting friendzoned she got together with a another guy and deleted me from her life.
Author sweet05 Posted March 1, 2014 Author Posted March 1, 2014 If it makes you feel any better at least he didn't lie about stuff. Last girl i was seeing was adamant she shouldn't be in a relationship, a week after getting friendzoned she got together with a another guy and deleted me from her life. Thats was mean. Looks like my story a little! Sorry that happened.
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