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If someone text you a few weeks after a breakup saying "they've been really busy distracting themselves but your still coming into my mind" what would it mean?

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BrokenHeartsClub

It could mean 2 things and this all depends on their personality. Only you know that the best, so you may be able to decide which is the case in your situation.

 

1. They don't want to be with you but they can't be with out you. This is the unfortunate case in where they string you along with intriguing texts, or enticing phone messages, that always hint there still being "something" there. But in reality they have no intention of getting back together at all.

 

2. They are having second thoughts about the break up and are really missing you. This one is pretty straight forward and you can tell right off the bat if this is what they are feeling. For one they actually make a true effort to meet up with you and talk face to face.

 

Only YOU can tell which one this is and you will usually know pretty quick. Listen to your heart.<----------Holy cheese batman :p

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It was me that sent it, i was wondering what would they think reading it, would they read it as a bit needy or desperate?

maybe im overthinking but just worried it read as something a bit too much, cause i handled the breakup okay and dont want my last impression being bad.

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Orangecrush55

If they are the ones who broke up with you then dont send it. It will make you look needy and push them away more. Its hard to resist, ive been there, but you really gotta try.

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wholeneworld
If they are the ones who broke up with you then dont send it. It will make you look needy and push them away more. Its hard to resist, ive been there, but you really gotta try.

 

Ya im disgusted with myself for sending it, will my last impression be of me being a needy person to her after that? And justify her decision more?

Ive been 40 days NC since & in a better place emotional and i can see now how needy i was!

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