bafflio Posted February 28, 2014 Posted February 28, 2014 I raise this question because I asked a girl out 'who's in a relationship' if she wants to check out this aquarium. She said yes. On her fb profile there is no sign of her boyfriend (no pic together, no nothing) but she still tells me she does have a bf. But then if she does, why the hell would she agree to go to aquarium together?
Fly Union Posted February 28, 2014 Posted February 28, 2014 I raise this question because I asked a girl out 'who's in a relationship' if she wants to check out this aquarium. She said yes. On her fb profile there is no sign of her boyfriend (no pic together, no nothing) but she still tells me she does have a bf. But then if she does, why the hell would she agree to go to aquarium together? Because she doesn't see you as a romantic interest. She sees you as a friend. She sees you as a harmless thing and not something that can cause her vagina to tingle. This is a dangerous place to be in especially if you see her in a romantic light. So what are you ever to do? Well, you do nothing with her. That's right. Have nothing to do with her. The time spent taking a woman who has no romantic interest in you could be spent taking a woman who DOES HAVE romantic interest in you. *gasp* *shock* *awe* It's shocking, I know. Invest that time in approaching and asking other women out instead. 1
d0nnivain Posted February 28, 2014 Posted February 28, 2014 Looking at fish is not cheating. Having friends of the opposite sex is not cheating. She probably accepted your invitation to go to the aquarium because she likes fish & doesn't want to go alone. She may also enjoy your company. If you are that freaked out about it, ask her how her BF will feel. 1
milwinlol Posted February 28, 2014 Posted February 28, 2014 If she does have a boyfriend, this means she is unfaithful....nothing you want to get involved in. If she doesn't have a boyfriend, this means she is a liar.....also nothing you want to get involved in.
JamesM Posted February 28, 2014 Posted February 28, 2014 She said yes, because she feels you share an interest with her and her bf may not want to go to the aquarium. I have hobbies that my wife has little interest in. She will go with me to events related, but I have female friends who would enjoy those events more than her. Would she have a problem with me taking them if she didn't want to go? No. Would their husbands or boyfriend? Probably not. Would it be anything more than that? No. Personally, I probably wouldn't because I would rather take my wife or go alone, but some people enjoy a companion as opposed to being alone. Decide if you can go as a friend. if not, say no. If yes, enjoy. 1
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